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you know you have a desire to pressure
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your body slowing you down

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what it is that you're being stifled in
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impulse control so what I do that call
prove not promises

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you want to your brain is a horse and
you have to be good at tricking the

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horse into doing what you want to do

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everything that I do on a day-to-day
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trickin my brain I track my brain

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say go to do a video blog for example
maybe office at made in an ideologue

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such incredibly important but also to
myself you know what

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I'm actually pretty well ahead on videos
right now doesn't even really that
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I don't get out and even care I'm
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I'm saying why to take outcome dependent
out its all be smoother

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in reality it you know family in New
York for like you know two days

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sit near the back in Brooklyn Bridge
shots antacid life span task I've got

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something I wanna say

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god damn it I want to get that shot I'm

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I wanted but I gotta calm down I'm going
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if I get a call if not I'll be back in
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it's not a big deal in reality I want
open shot man

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but I gotta check my brain say that I
say to myself into going to a club maybe

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I'll try yelling for second

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maybe I'll go pressure back /url maybe
I'll go approach you know a guy and a

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girl together something

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sites are slow tricky my brain into
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tricky my brain continually into feeling
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so every Marvin that I go into I have my
base level of confidence

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which comes from life may be few you
know say that you know how to fight

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been through a lot you got a whole carry
yourself what not you feel good about

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who you are things like that that your

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that you're kinda like base level of
confidence but then you got to set aside

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to you

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love actually spiking yourself in that
environment and did

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you know you can dramatically change
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two minutes by tricking yourself she a
trick yourself a noted that for a year

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what begins to happen man now you have a
year to experience is where you got to

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be back often and I

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and carry yourself as that guy and he
got it because it begins to become

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normal

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and then over time you begin to lose
those crutches but the crutches are

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always there

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if you need them if you need a crotch is
always there

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cell I have a base level confidence make
a mark in any situation that's nice

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but I also know how did shake things up
a little bit in my favor by checking my

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brain

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what alley in fines if I'm lacking for
confidence and I'm 163

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in often and posted up in front of pizza
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girls walking by mister to open them
slowly no big deal

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my confidence just got cuz my brain says
in this environment nothing bad will

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happen if I open

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so that I start to make out the few
girls

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now my mood is going up I'm becoming
more on stifled

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that maybe I moved to a different area
now when I move to a different area

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actually feel that internal impulse
control activating an

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and then I have to start over a little
bit and become comparable matter right

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now

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people here there's no misinterpreted
because I'll say that what you need to

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do just to be confident dude I'm walking
up on fucking stoners

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making out with them in .3 saddam within
minutes the minimum the short ball in

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ginger so do you do Neil

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but to be fair unless you're doing that

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here is maybe a little higher than when
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you don't I'm dealing with a whole
different beast here what I'm trying to

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you don't want from a southerner person
crowded parking only that's a little bit

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in a different beast

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then you know what the average person
can fasten day today I'm not talking

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about

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engineer confident issue like um you
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my hands are shaking

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but what i'm saying is like to have the
like rock star level confidence are you

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walking up and I caliber woman yeah

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you know there's some things that I use
the tools and dad

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you don't wanna most 10 shows the couple
never be so knowledge one and that one

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of the Synology is

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the your mind has imposed control and
that an environment we first get there

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you might like head

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headed hey hey heard

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hehehe you know even as i'm talking now

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I can talk to a large room without even
looking like I'm yelling
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what I'm not yelling right now and you
can hear me

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from 30 feet away the back how clearly

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so my voice is exploding out to you and
%um speaking in a normal

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tone so that's cuz my voice is on skype
on this great attraction in women

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when they hear a guy from 30 feet away
they go back I must be the alpha male

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than they look at the alpha male has
this by it

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it's like fast-talking when your kid

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by eight they still feel that attraction
because they feel the

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the boys coming out now I know

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that I might start of now like that my
body language can be tight

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I feel stifled hey get it out

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now I feel non-fatal just by

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may be doing a little bit silly stop
it's like a shell you break out okay

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I selection as a student's I don't do
the same are a threat to get in trouble

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but literally make them take your shirt
off and run through the streets on on

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for a

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I'm free like putting up pretty sure
like a ninja masters welcome to

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I yeah jobs are not like you like
running through the streets

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summer the best moments of my life for
doing that it's a dealer rating:

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I gotta tell you because what happens is
that you'll feel your body going nope

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nope no

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like this and the because you doing
something so dramatically greater Asher

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letter

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bring out the ninja mask on your hadn't
had a but might put on my feet are like

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ninja poses shit

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is completely bizarre just social
experiment Tommy something

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what happens I collect no nope no and
then all the sudden my brain ago

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he's doing this this mother fuckers in
doing this

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let's make it better because he's gonna
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and so it's almost like you know you're
thinking climbing a mountain

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and your brains like 90 don't wanna noun
da Cunha not look down a little scary

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all the sudden your brain shift lenses
and is like maybe climbing Mount

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fun to push it down there don t worry
about that there's an ex rock there's

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the Nets rock

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any sort to poke some up sites are got
your brain actually shipped lenses
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in terms of what is focusing on you know
some people like for optimist

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some people like for pessimists just
further focuses it's like some people

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could be looking at a fucking parade a
beautiful parade outside you see the

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parade

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and the people feel it a little speck
adjourn on the window they're both right

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there in speculative assert that this
pack

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this pack as bad debts back we're gonna
be like do this if I can do about that

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for it right so identify myself while
the little

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lesser version to be shirtless I'm free
wantin

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maybe let me know sing a song maybe only
committed noise made only thing that

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crazy maybe I'll do some approaches

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this on staples my mind %uh do that in
one environment here so crazy it up

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get ready for this we're gonna go deeper
am cell

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but also happen is that you'll become
once I pulled for the

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average attractiveness girls but your
reticle activation system will still

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be afraid I'll be most attractive girls

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so happens you become on Saipan for the
average girls but when the most

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attractive girls come

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your brain is still afraid the alpha
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they're hotter

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so it's almost like climbing up to the
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and then what happens is at first your
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happening TP paper cause tension

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your article activation system is funny
everything wrong
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with approaching a girl okay

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everything that you're seeing is she
leaving she's too hot she's not hot

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enough she's busy

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I don't see an opening I don't see the
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opening she's

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walking I don't see the opening she's
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I'd say I don't see

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the opening here and that and what was
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is that your brain is a trading impose
control is shifting your ticket back to

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base the simplest let the focus

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from the parade onto the dot on the
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so it feels real nasa probs it feels
fuckin real solace in my for like at the

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beginning of a night out

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might only mission is to get to a point
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upside not the downside I want to stop
seeing the girls all running away doing

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this and that I don't trust that part in
my mind

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and at shirt approaching side you that
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organic adjusted to pressure the average
girls you know the key once

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but it doesn't you know the superstars
I'm not adjust oppression separate

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wanted to them

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and shipped into it now want to shift
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will begin to happen is now I have a
really good cop is that apartment if I

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got a couple different environments do
that in a few different Barmouth

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here's what happens had think a bit like
yours your baseline
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here's like math Lena zone and here's
mathlete out on his own

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have you ever had a night where you're
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that you couldn't shake yourself I did
no matter what the

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only way that you can shake yourself
bottom it is white to go to sleep

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you wake up in the morning you'll be
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in that nice you get the worst nightmare
god damn life you go to sleep you wake

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up in the morning

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you feel normal again but unfortunately

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the other side at is that you can also
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and then that's also how you feel okay
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im only like we can just keep going out
every night get more mourners down

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never have to go to sleep we can be like
running around like it like the
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our brand I think I did when a little me
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what I found is that if I have such a
horrible night I'll get in such a bad

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night and nothing will shake me out a
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but likewise if I keep climbing those
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average girl she brought a girl and I do
nephew different environments that every

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time change apartments you lose that
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an important role comes back my brain in
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again his own and a probable lose that
for the rest of the night

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because I understand this and have
fought through this he has

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again and again and again I feel very
confident I pick up skills

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I feel her coffin

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given that I've got a great chance a
poll because I know how to get to the

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where even if that first our two or even
three is rough

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eventually I will get loose and want
some loose

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my chances on really hot women is very
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on on the flip side I pull girls on at
least I pull girls when I'm really

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fucking low I pull girls I'm also the
damn bottom

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and that's good growth like cock girls
like to get fucked

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some other me just go up the grotesque
is your mercy fuck 30 has got the goods

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fuck you just cuz

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she's bored you went up he proceeded
leave salata got to do with

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is you have that relies a shit when
you're in his own it helps but then

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every time it on his own

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you're like on all those old I can
approach right now or not it was all

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right now it would be inappropriate for
me to brush up the fuck up dude

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approach anywhere you still might get
laid yeah

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you know what I did I did a preacher New
York like two months ago

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and he was there for feature New York
amatzia how crazy was that I mean

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very yes like it was like being on drugs
or something I mean it was like

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outta control not every speech looks
like that I know that if I do special

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got that shit

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I wasn't uncommon speeches I'm getting
pretty cost beat right now

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is a problem in my city here right now
to accomplish with you
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wishing that I was like walking on water
in my public speaking like in New York

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or my congruent or I am now

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so I can still do this speech from this
place that I mean now

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I can see I can also use peace my place
I love being in the zone I love me and I

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place

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but I can still be a great speech from
where I'm at now so I understand that

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so I know that I want to take action to
put myself in his own

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but I don't necessarily have to resist
it if I'm not in this July

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accepted completely no problem he moving

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on so you want to be a master share it
here

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it's all about baby steps we're trying
to do what you're trying to do this big

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leap

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got some hot girl approach sure getter
in you because you know you can't do it

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you block yourself got a dumb it down
into small steps

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small step I'm gonna go fuckin like

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at like cures innings exiled you of a
distant go approach the wall

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touch the ball to a funny high pile in
the wall this is a quite make me do this

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and I just

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let's do this the lockable do not know
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now this

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K now it's fucking awesome since like
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I'm like okay now just also had a go for
one second run back to me

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call goes knows that did that was
fucking awesome

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okay now go touch that cup over there do
a spin as you touch the cup

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the goddess min now it's fucking awesome
okay now got a girl say hi

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my name is Chris and then run back that
was fucking awesome

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okay now you're gonna go take the phone
in gold ring ring ding a ling ling

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the arena do the way you did not ring
ring ding a ling ling

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that was fucking awesome now got to that
girl say hi remover to feed

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wassup survivors are two pieces kinda
weirded out but she accepted

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dude that was fucking awesome okay now
you gonna do is your gonna happen

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you know you're gonna spin yourself in a
circle five times and yell Alba

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clinically do

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a cable to Dallas fucking awesome okay
now you're gonna do you walk up to the

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school over here

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and you're gonna talk here for one
minute you talk to a woman
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that was fucking awesome build that up
over two hours what's going to happen

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the guys gonna be a long conversation
the girl me ponder on fucker

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so and and if it happens countless times
so

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you want to be you want to be a matchup
you might look like what are we teaching

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here our city we're teaching guys

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they're not supposed to be on a poor
track two women tube or try to limit

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it's not easy

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I let me just tell you be cool bro be
cool

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but how do you feel I tell you like on a
night where you're struggling I just

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tell you be cool

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what I do for you it is just nothing it
back if anything it's almost an insult

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because what is in cuz its on one level
it's true
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like it's actually accurate biko like
it's actually true

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but but it's what was that be well it's
just

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it its yes like it installed because yet
makes you how you feel is right so it's

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like it makes you feel worse

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cuz you're just like I know I G it with
a dude I know all

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I get it I should be cool I'm not cool
okay

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I got cool okay it alright but I'm not
cool

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so it's like at that point rather
getting some you know

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generic advice would be cool bro but bro

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what you gonna do you're the lucky
stores were torched bokan to report

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well could you not know that's cool do

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bokan wanker hot you know it's like okay

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well shut the fuck up and get this nerd
later the 10 cut

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you don't do this like me I'm a nerd
let's get me later the tent how am I

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gonna do it

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what I found the work I've been out for
12 years

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four to seven nights a week most the
time except during work intense

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appearance how am I gonna do it

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how my gonna trick my little your brain
that some comparable

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to go do this the ways ensuring you are
among those ways and I got countless

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ways like this

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but the point is I'd become familiar
with my brain for its amazing strength

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and four is quite pathetic in a
weaknesses I get

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I've got some weaknesses I can sit
around brow beating myself for these

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weaknesses

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or I can say this is what my brain is
this is the

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organic little lump in my pocket had
that I'm working with

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this is the tool that I have you got to
your brain just like any other fuckin

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tall

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looking you got it he got a little
fuckin tool they are shoveling with

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don't fit their crime that the two
wasn't perfect this is the tool that you

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have if you can build a better tool
build

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a better tool but now you're working
with this tool so you want it optimize

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we're working on with it

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my brain is that kinda socially inept

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nerdy quads I artistic kinda depressed

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weird fast I know that about my brain
poor me

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let sit around crying about it looks
around identified with that let's

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identify with it let's make an identity

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Adam I prayed but I really my brain look
i mean i kinda them

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but neither we're looking at is what I'm
born with like my my are my my my fuckin

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fingernail what my brain hurt our

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that or is my brain is what it is
someone to recognize what my brain is

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and then from there I want to work my
brain to the best I can

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so some lunch I'm learning that and
that's why every fucking week %uh put

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out a video porn some you check

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because I learned how my brain works and
I optimize it

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and I mean crybaby about it so if you go
out regularly and you keep

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optimizing you keep learning about how
you react

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learn where you fuck up if you go home
after a bad night be like a why

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what triggered this like where was the
point where I could fix this any there's

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you be like you know what I walked in
the club

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I saw girl there I knew I wanted to
approach and I made an excuse no one got

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a glass a water

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what what happened tonight consider
getting the glass a water that I so

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desperately thought I'd

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he didn't seem so real the time I would
adjust approach first and then got the

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glass a water

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what is considered getting taking
appears I held it for an extra two and a

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half minutes

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and then I took a piss incentive to be
getting a downward spiral

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you can recognize yourself you know

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you can be getting some girls number and
you know you should call and then you

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can recognize yourself as always all
different things we can recognize

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in yourself and then you go home and you
reflect on it

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and you have two choices that point on
the brow be yourself and I'm a bad man

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I'm a bad little man I'm a bad little
boy

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bad dirty little boy but don't do
anything point bad a boy

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bad appoint bad badminton bash yourself
make a big

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image on it or you can say my brain is
what it is

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I learn something about my brain today
today I learned something about myself

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I learned something about my fuckin
Brian cool

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rock on and if you do that you move
forward

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you will you will know everything about
how you work I know how I get when I'm

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tired and sleepy when I different types
of food

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I don't my brain will focus on I know
and keep blood all that shit and from

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New Year with my stupid ass little
fucking brain

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and it's not even a point to being
self-indulgent it's not appointed like

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little doodle

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is life even that important I'm now more
here

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so try to get the value-added so it I'm
just a try to take up

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almost like a disassociated view my
brain that while

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look when I make jokes from a balding
ginger why I'm a weirdo
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all the time joking about is just shit
that my jeans you doing but

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your your own person man I mean your
your jeans part you but

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you can actually it's weird you know

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you wanna one price so disconnected from
from Mike I don't associate myself with

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my brain

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because I don't trust my brain my brain
here's my brain let me to do

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in let me know if it's esperes in let me
not to approach women

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it led me to be a coward let me to be
depressed it let me make excuses

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it but my life up my brain's default
patterns like this like garden full of

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weeds

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I personally found my brain will grow we
snapped up what the fucking lease

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so I don't necessarily associate with my
brain even sooner I'm afraid approach a
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girl

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I do you like my brain trying to do is
gonna do when I'm gonna I can win

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and I don't know I mean maybe there
could be on

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the part about you know that you'll get
your brain and shit I don't know

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you know I don't tell me that you're not
i mean ideal you want to try to into

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your brain

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find you again I view the bronco horse I
want rain the shit out the horse and the

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horse in the writer can be one

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you not saying right the horse and rider
are integrated that's how I think it's

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ok I'm gonna finicky horse

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I did you like about this talking
finicky outsource

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I'm gonna learn to ride that horse is
def I can except of course for what it
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is

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and I mean or to be a winning team so
even though my brain is wacky

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latest in is called me a lot of trouble
kinda like my brain now

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because I'm familiar with my brain I
know what might my expectations are

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manager know my brain's gonna do

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so because I know my brain's gonna do I
can

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I can work my brain the horse rider I
can whip it to make it do what I want

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most to the time not all the time I have
my low moment still

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and I learn something from Oklahoma to
keep learning so I treasure those two

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so that's how I don't really think that
I can't just approach will be cool bro

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that may be worse for you your brain
doesn't care about to speak all bro

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he gotta learn what your brain does care
about and show it what it wants proof
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not promises

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and when you get good at from years and
going out you get very effective

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some guys Neath some don't there's guys
in this room here this unlike

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I really do just use the just be calm at
that I don't mind insulting at all

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I'm conical what are you dealing with
this sounds miserable

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but then there's other guys that hear
this and are like oh my god this is the

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first fuckin good sense I never fucking

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and you know so there's some people hear
him saying and they don't relate with

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that at all cuz this are probably have
maybe they have a different problem

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that some other speaker set but other
people at the mall so many deer

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yeah im like I

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up from route good

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whats app

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any you went out to approach yeah
capitalist looking to follow

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I went out to approach now not
approaching

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my criteria for success with that
approach to high

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for the six steps approach all

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was like a similar success of me I have
to do just one way

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to snap it up in the zone one way many
don't have to do all time

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what is accepts approach all minimize
time between traction

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never judge so bad so every said 210

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find something funny about every
interaction I can remember last time

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taught in a while but it was like

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a little bit further in every
interaction you remember the rest is a
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go a little bit

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every track struggle a bit further all
and then if its if it's some

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was at yeah it's its if you're in the
zone you can burn to the ground could be

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a lot more aggressively kinda funny

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mode and if you're not in a funny mood
don't burn to the ground to make it to

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the club

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unique and like burning to the ground
rolling introvert like and you know

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right

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but you can if you're fuckin funny can
push further cell let's dissect that

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okay

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cell open all what does that do open all
men in my family contraction right now

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there's no pressure

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to have now come there's no pressure all
you have to do is what it's like walking

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up to the speaker here

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yeah I mean like hey speaker my top

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can you say open all the other one is
made my family contractually do that

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because you want K

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breaking down deeper why did you open a
window open all

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click every time you see a girl your
training yourself to get action taking

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momentum

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action taking had all momentum excuse
making

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also has a momentum so if you if you
every time you see a girl

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fat or ugly or bad or hot

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I that her ugly you know how fat I
wanted a slim girls and I stayed

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Arden you every time you see a girl
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you see your bang you go in now what
happens is

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yeah but you might attract girls in
buying your penpal in the hot one goes

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by you open like that

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because you can dish yourself to do a
commercially he make excuses excuses

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future future getting excuse me for a
moment

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if i text you to tissues excuse

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you see the one you like to make an
excuse to buy like doesn't fight

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everybody there's some guys for the way
the inner world works

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they're looking for the hot one and if
the approach roads not hot it makes them

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actually feel degraded

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the like why my persian not girls not
hot not to my taste fuck yes

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and they actually will go approach point
i won a lot time when I see is this
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that a small percent you guys and if you
want those guys are lucky mother fucker

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and

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push might for most guys what's
happening is

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they're like I'll want personal time
into

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and then when the Wonder into goes by
what do they do they don't

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approach because they have issues making
them so any confusion on the girly

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walking light sell what I want to do
what I want when that play by play me

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looking girl goes by

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I percent that somebody been approaching
everybody else I'm not even thinking an

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email she looks like

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my hand is just we should before I even
know what she looks like my hands

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reaching out to pour in

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it's almost like I'm shaking my brain
out in the whole intimidation on the

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looks thing

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it's incredibly effective it's so
affected because your pressure turbine

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10

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but was coughing on the fucking planet
little does she know you been pushing

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for three fucking hours

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but she thinks you're the kinda guy just
chillin with your friends is walk a

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00:23:25,399 --> 00:23:27,484
sees what he wants and walks up like
that if only we could be that through

465
00:23:28,249 --> 00:23:29,303
the life right we see opportunities

466
00:23:29,789 --> 00:23:32,846
take it you know but stop but when you

467
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,362
are gonna say momentum with she
opportunity take see opportunity to take

468
00:23:36,389 --> 00:23:39,424
its ever to take cover to take it you
can remember that the first step

469
00:23:39,739 --> 00:23:42,780
open all the second step is made my
family interaction why do we didn't do

470
00:23:43,149 --> 00:23:43,183
that

471
00:23:43,489 --> 00:23:46,498
we do that because otherwise we begin
until you can alter one

472
00:23:47,389 --> 00:23:50,418
you gonna sit around Baker socializing

473
00:23:50,679 --> 00:23:53,950
and socializing door about the phone to
south side

474
00:23:53,095 --> 00:23:57,132
socializing and socializing what's going
to happen as soon as you actually

475
00:23:58,032 --> 00:24:01,301
I SS initiate a conversation was going
to happen is

476
00:24:01,589 --> 00:24:05,616
you're gonna social mode look it might
look at how speaking to you now versus

477
00:24:05,859 --> 00:24:06,950
when I first got in here

478
00:24:06,095 --> 00:24:11,224
and more speaker mode if the fuckin mode
yet to get in the fuckin mode

479
00:24:12,079 --> 00:24:14,142
so what you want to do you want to get
the most humane my time between traction

480
00:24:14,709 --> 00:24:15,724
on the next one the key

481
00:24:15,859 --> 00:24:18,866
the next to really the key actually what
is
482
00:24:18,929 --> 00:24:23,290
every approach would you rate it

483
00:24:23,029 --> 00:24:26,064
a hundred out at 10 why do we rated a
hundred outta 10

484
00:24:26,064 --> 00:24:31,110
can you even have a hundred outta 10 the
word a hundred out at cannes is

485
00:24:32,001 --> 00:24:33,026
inherently a rational

486
00:24:33,035 --> 00:24:36,038
newing a bad

487
00:24:36,038 --> 00:24:39,112
approach as good is also inherently

488
00:24:40,012 --> 00:24:45,014
irrational but nonetheless we will use a
110

489
00:24:45,014 --> 00:24:49,058
and the reasonable you got a hundred can
actually is rational will you to 110

490
00:24:49,058 --> 00:24:53,075
because who the fuck without a boss to
do that who approaches beautiful women

491
00:24:53,075 --> 00:24:53,082
sober

492
00:24:54,045 --> 00:24:57,050
who approaches beautiful women suffer
very rare

493
00:24:57,095 --> 00:25:01,111
who the fuck outta bosnia that and you
get a moment you're getting into a

494
00:25:02,011 --> 00:25:02,094
social momentum

495
00:25:02,094 --> 00:25:06,119
so why is that bad I view it

496
00:25:07,019 --> 00:25:10,045
as good so it is a 110 is knit

497
00:25:10,045 --> 00:25:13,086
you nothing like us not it is because
you the pocket on the boss knew that

498
00:25:13,086 --> 00:25:16,135
no one very few K

499
00:25:17,035 --> 00:25:20,113
now the next 15 something funny about
here's the other big keep she got

500
00:25:21,013 --> 00:25:21,101
talking all these girls

501
00:25:22,001 --> 00:25:25,039
he comes out on the approach he's coming
out the approach with the deal

502
00:25:25,039 --> 00:25:29,120
got a little scowl on his face he sad
but he didn't get the validation that he

503
00:25:30,002 --> 00:25:30,066
wants

504
00:25:30,084 --> 00:25:34,098
a bus got anything coach in our time the
comonomer several

505
00:25:34,098 --> 00:25:38,099
but this ago dude tickle tickle you know
like the fuck up

506
00:25:39,008 --> 00:25:42,020
is an approach what do you read the
pressure on route 10 what if there's
507
00:25:42,002 --> 00:25:44,025
something 210 what should you look like

508
00:25:44,043 --> 00:25:47,054
happy

509
00:25:47,054 --> 00:25:49,109
minor detail and offering

510
00:25:50,009 --> 00:25:54,054
yes every pro sheesh in the background
of a day not disappoint me just to rate

511
00:25:54,054 --> 00:25:54,078
their

512
00:25:54,078 --> 00:25:58,101
you can use that as bizarre as that is
you say after every program like fuckin

513
00:25:59,001 --> 00:26:00,004
Ryan Gossling

514
00:26:00,004 --> 00:26:03,010
why X retarded makes of antagonising
perfect

515
00:26:03,064 --> 00:26:07,090
perfect because it makes no sense so you
like I should approach

516
00:26:07,009 --> 00:26:10,041
Omron off again a stupid but if it makes
you laugh

517
00:26:11,022 --> 00:26:14,068
met my thought making you laugh after a
day or two that can get old but it for a

518
00:26:14,068 --> 00:26:15,111
day or two that made you laugh

519
00:26:16,011 --> 00:26:19,086
good you call yourself the approach
montana Cookie Monster it came out

520
00:26:19,086 --> 00:26:20,133
cookie monster strikes again

521
00:26:21,033 --> 00:26:24,034
carried out there right the Cookie
Monster

522
00:26:24,034 --> 00:26:27,085
strikes again and but what does that
even mean it's like i

523
00:26:27,085 --> 00:26:31,107
carjacked head out there right but the
Cookie Monster striking and so

524
00:26:32,007 --> 00:26:35,010
that's funny you found something funny
about maybe she made a funny mannerism

525
00:26:35,037 --> 00:26:37,102
whatever it is right like I tried to
hump backer

526
00:26:38,002 --> 00:26:42,005
fairly without lag creampie you know
right she didn't want the creampie

527
00:26:42,032 --> 00:26:46,121
it's funny nothing is that's a mental
muscle a lot a god-like is a very tight

528
00:26:47,021 --> 00:26:52,023
that stupid thats to bed I'm more like a
James Bond kinda guy

529
00:26:52,041 --> 00:26:56,136
that stupid all you're laughing you know
creampie cookie monster Matt

530
00:26:57,036 --> 00:27:01,122
okay to call but are gonna get away with
that attitude
531
00:27:02,022 --> 00:27:05,079
gonna get laid walking around looking
like a angry man from Eastern Europe

532
00:27:05,079 --> 00:27:08,135
you might I mean a dishonorable day get
but in the Nikon Obama particularly

533
00:27:09,035 --> 00:27:10,092
where he was having fun

534
00:27:10,092 --> 00:27:14,179
top cell basically do at that point is
you're laughing

535
00:27:15,079 --> 00:27:18,152
the next one is if I push each approach
little bit further

536
00:27:19,052 --> 00:27:22,063
and the next one is it if it's if you're
in the zone burned to the ground

537
00:27:22,063 --> 00:27:22,070
otherwise bounce

538
00:27:23,033 --> 00:27:26,062
that said that last one is good I added
that fixed at here's why

539
00:27:26,062 --> 00:27:29,091
because a lot of guys which had a birch
into the ground or not really

540
00:27:29,091 --> 00:27:33,134
in a social mood in the growth get
freaked the fuck out so I was like dude

541
00:27:34,034 --> 00:27:35,091
you can do that if you like fuckin

542
00:27:35,091 --> 00:27:38,158
one point but don't be like burning to
granting on point so I added that in
543
00:27:39,058 --> 00:27:42,077
what you're doing right now is you're
doing IOP

544
00:27:42,077 --> 00:27:46,081
a principle similar to the book flow by
a highly Kuechly Miley where packaging

545
00:27:46,081 --> 00:27:46,122
is

546
00:27:47,022 --> 00:27:50,023
call flow and it the idea is that

547
00:27:50,023 --> 00:27:53,112
you create a criteria for success that
hard to accomplish but doable

548
00:27:54,012 --> 00:27:58,071
in what company said you'd like a graph
right one is like the difficulty of the

549
00:27:58,179 --> 00:27:58,228
task

550
00:27:58,669 --> 00:28:01,671
and the other is your skill level so
imagine you're going downhill

551
00:28:01,869 --> 00:28:05,910
and the hill is like the bunny slope
well that's too easy you're gonna PLO

552
00:28:06,279 --> 00:28:06,328
state

553
00:28:06,769 --> 00:28:10,804
imagine if you're going down a really
hard Hill in the heart Hill

554
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:15,120
is not fun at all just fuckin scary on a
walk down to christie's of

555
00:28:15,129 --> 00:28:18,166
you not gonna float what if you're going
downhill is just the perfect challenge

556
00:28:18,499 --> 00:28:22,552
relatives your ability now you get into
what is the perfect shot right at your

557
00:28:23,029 --> 00:28:26,210
believe it's a little bit harder than
you used to you want to force extra

558
00:28:26,021 --> 00:28:27,370
bright

559
00:28:27,559 --> 00:28:30,970
you to close it so it's happening to you
now as you're creating a task for

560
00:28:30,097 --> 00:28:31,145
yourself it is too hard

561
00:28:32,045 --> 00:28:35,644
is too hard man you're going in there
like

562
00:28:36,049 --> 00:28:39,137
approach a girl officialdom actually i
watch garcetti video watch the video me

563
00:28:39,929 --> 00:28:40,950
pull my two girls

564
00:28:40,095 --> 00:28:43,184
you look I'm gonna do that tonight
floodlights tonight for the Knights

565
00:28:44,084 --> 00:28:48,110
tonight at the white knights psych
himself up bra

566
00:28:49,001 --> 00:28:52,030
gets out there coach approach

567
00:28:52,129 --> 00:28:56,142
too scared too scared to ask if you are

568
00:28:56,259 --> 00:28:59,272
he thinks that I'm able to do something
is not

569
00:28:59,389 --> 00:29:04,190
here's a net unrealized I couldn't do
what he's trying to do either

570
00:29:04,019 --> 00:29:08,021
I i couldnt new the guy you're watching
on the internet

571
00:29:08,021 --> 00:29:13,108
can't do what you're trying to do if I
walked out on my part wrong the claw

572
00:29:14,008 --> 00:29:17,022
polar now threesome girl

573
00:29:17,022 --> 00:29:20,110
I can't do that i dun

574
00:29:21,001 --> 00:29:26,160
yet at times and it had which he called
tonight at 9 a.m. at 0-10 I thought her

575
00:29:26,259 --> 00:29:29,326
out liars but in general what I find is
I'm a little stuck in my head

576
00:29:29,929 --> 00:29:34,026
I make a simple criteria that I can win
at I condition my mind to feel like I'm

577
00:29:34,899 --> 00:29:34,962
winning

578
00:29:35,529 --> 00:29:39,556
I really delude myself to feel like I'm
winning guys are shocked they see me

579
00:29:39,799 --> 00:29:41,320
coming out a girl to shut me off

580
00:29:41,032 --> 00:29:45,047
and I could go do all the work 0 you
don't like are you serious

581
00:29:45,047 --> 00:29:49,136
that's funny to you but you look so
happy at the Nevada Gaming

582
00:29:49,559 --> 00:29:53,567
I look like I'm elated in aidid because
I didn't

583
00:29:53,639 --> 00:29:56,735
mind fuck my stopping everything I did
was great look you know %uh populated

584
00:29:57,599 --> 00:30:02,668
my kid Guillen you know why because even
if he takes a shit like you talk a lot

585
00:30:03,289 --> 00:30:07,356
its head this kid when you're swimming
the other day I was joking he should

586
00:30:07,959 --> 00:30:09,040
have like a drug that would like like
this kid

587
00:30:09,769 --> 00:30:13,771
he's so cocky you like he's fuckin you
like swimming with a light jog 90 like

588
00:30:13,969 --> 00:30:17,978
I swimming Effect 3 raise like they are
just just turns you like to the time

589
00:30:18,059 --> 00:30:19,081
like I'm swimming

590
00:30:19,279 --> 00:30:23,297
hymie threw an egg he looked up his
grandfather on the porch that I gotta

591
00:30:23,459 --> 00:30:23,527
grab up

592
00:30:24,139 --> 00:30:27,227
I've got a grab a hot Fleming jumped on
a job a

593
00:30:28,019 --> 00:30:32,068
I'm job putting in a other what drug can
I take it would make me feel like that

594
00:30:32,509 --> 00:30:34,526
how could that be a minute walking

595
00:30:34,679 --> 00:30:37,746
I have defined by the following I found
the 50

596
00:30:38,349 --> 00:30:41,437
good why the aww I think any delivery
watch life I guess why the walking

597
00:30:42,229 --> 00:30:42,302
through life like this

598
00:30:42,959 --> 00:30:45,977
because when he finds a bullet getting
under only eight but

599
00:30:46,139 --> 00:30:49,205
you know that many believe they can be
things that were telling the truth

600
00:30:49,799 --> 00:30:52,855
you know like you to shed light weight I
gotta tell you shit your pants you know

601
00:30:53,359 --> 00:30:54,364
he liked that both

602
00:30:54,859 --> 00:30:58,866
I didn't go you know the things that see
you gotta find your own inner I did poop

603
00:30:59,559 --> 00:31:02,950
because when you think about it when you
if you look at don't be a mere

604
00:31:02,095 --> 00:31:05,170
when he's running around at moto action
of the time he would do well with women

605
00:31:06,007 --> 00:31:12,019
women love guys that act like dat big
bright eyes smiling confident outgoing

606
00:31:12,082 --> 00:31:14,341
not self-conscious not judging
themselves

607
00:31:15,079 --> 00:31:18,151
you know converse to sad eyes

608
00:31:18,799 --> 00:31:22,821
stifle old sad itself doubting
introverted

609
00:31:23,019 --> 00:31:26,118
so a course like that so how does John
wind up like I cuz he's enough of me

610
00:31:27,009 --> 00:31:28,036
back landed me in his

611
00:31:28,279 --> 00:31:32,341
mother have put in his head I we put a
massive of feedback loop in is that

612
00:31:32,899 --> 00:31:36,901
I you know cell but that's good that's
why you encourage kids

613
00:31:37,099 --> 00:31:40,122
you it like that and think about that
one time share it

614
00:31:40,329 --> 00:31:43,363
think about how we treat a baby

615
00:31:43,669 --> 00:31:46,671
the way they do we need to be treated
but how do you treat yourself

616
00:31:46,869 --> 00:31:50,948
why would you never treat a baby by
shooting on Ian browbeating at could you

617
00:31:51,659 --> 00:31:53,690
wouldn't read it wouldn't ring is a
little kid like that the location

618
00:31:53,969 --> 00:31:54,060
yourself

619
00:31:54,879 --> 00:31:57,940
brow beating yourself is that a way to
treat yourself it is at times

620
00:31:58,489 --> 00:32:02,494
we are adults or not baby that's true at
times I will probably my fault if I

621
00:32:02,539 --> 00:32:02,611
fucked up

622
00:32:03,259 --> 00:32:06,314
I will sit around being myself up for a
while and think I'll chain

623
00:32:06,809 --> 00:32:09,370
change but I don't probably myself from
a reason I don't is probably much

624
00:32:09,037 --> 00:32:11,038
mcdormand doubled up on that now

625
00:32:11,047 --> 00:32:15,606
what I'm doing right now if I could
affect the god damn joke how I change

626
00:32:16,029 --> 00:32:18,104
want to change or we could always change
a month ago what it is you're going to

627
00:32:18,779 --> 00:32:21,200
reflect on that as a man I think you
have to have nights like that you have

628
00:32:21,002 --> 00:32:21,571
demonized

629
00:32:21,769 --> 00:32:24,773
like we just sit around I think about it
you know

630
00:32:24,809 --> 00:32:28,833
like if I if I it do something wrong
summons all take an afternoon off at

631
00:32:29,049 --> 00:32:31,051
three or four hours and of it alone in a
room

632
00:32:31,249 --> 00:32:35,350
and I'll ruminate on what I did wrong
that healthy because that's going to

633
00:32:35,035 --> 00:32:36,049
take you got the ship its own

634
00:32:36,049 --> 00:32:39,608
autopilot and you spent a couple hours
turning the writer

635
00:32:40,049 --> 00:32:43,112
to go somewhere else that's healthy I
have days like that regularly

636
00:32:43,679 --> 00:32:46,765
you know maybe a cup may be few times a
month but

637
00:32:47,539 --> 00:32:51,539
that's different from his brow be
yourself look I saw a cop boo

638
00:32:51,539 --> 00:32:55,490
that's not helping you wanna share some
more like how dona Street intervention

639
00:32:55,049 --> 00:32:55,968
get through to my ticket

640
00:32:56,409 --> 00:32:59,590
you want to be like trigger some good
man

641
00:32:59,059 --> 00:33:02,120
site room I felt like a little baby I
might my own inner cheerleader

642
00:33:03,002 --> 00:33:07,691
are trained to be on my team I did you
proud and the cooking of their

643
00:33:07,889 --> 00:33:10,950
and in my eyes light up I said
approaching after getting into a better

644
00:33:10,095 --> 00:33:10,146
mood

645
00:33:11,046 --> 00:33:14,585
and they might be in the night I do do
something epic fucking shit I video that

646
00:33:14,999 --> 00:33:16,011
not sure that you get off it

647
00:33:16,119 --> 00:33:19,132
and then you'll go to do that that's how
I did it

648
00:33:19,249 --> 00:33:22,360
cell be easy on yourself

649
00:33:22,036 --> 00:33:26,071
how compassion on yourself get to know
your mind question feedback

650
00:33:26,071 --> 00:33:28,157
heard about your mind familiarize
yourself with this little thing you're

651
00:33:29,057 --> 00:33:29,606
working with

652
00:33:30,119 --> 00:33:33,160
it's not against you it's just a
stubborn ass animal you'll get working

653
00:33:33,529 --> 00:33:34,210
for you

654
00:33:34,021 --> 00:33:37,090
if your brain's getting our time little
do you realize

655
00:33:37,279 --> 00:33:39,317
your brain's getting our time it could
mean that by the time that you actually

656
00:33:39,659 --> 00:33:41,950
team a damn thing it's going to be
amazing

657
00:33:41,095 --> 00:33:46,164
now can be amazing like I try out some
kind of light autism

658
00:33:47,019 --> 00:33:50,970
or of burgers and Matt and I don't
really know and it was that many people

659
00:33:50,097 --> 00:33:52,936
like what was that mean like your autism
oh my god what's that mean it means that

660
00:33:53,809 --> 00:33:53,867
you think

661
00:33:54,389 --> 00:33:58,730
with depth not Brett that's all it means
the mean I'm walking over told a girl

662
00:33:58,073 --> 00:33:58,482
like that

663
00:33:59,139 --> 00:34:02,202
that's a s'more shrinkage in spectrum on
like it on the spectrum you just see

664
00:34:02,769 --> 00:34:04,070
things deeply

665
00:34:04,007 --> 00:34:07,366
you dissect things deeply so we're
talking about basic let you know you

666
00:34:07,429 --> 00:34:08,960
have any questions I feel here and fresh

667
00:34:08,096 --> 00:34:11,555
what's your opinion on now or later you
have it

668
00:34:12,419 --> 00:34:15,442
I can go deep nasa my brain does my
brain is always going deep

669
00:34:15,649 --> 00:34:18,726
all the time I'm either present in the
moment which case everything satellite

670
00:34:19,419 --> 00:34:22,517
or I'm portion apart thinking about all
different direction the shit

671
00:34:23,399 --> 00:34:27,560
some people call that bad it was bad for
me lichen socialite for twenty years

672
00:34:27,056 --> 00:34:30,123
but now that I figured out how to work
it I have an advantage

673
00:34:31,023 --> 00:34:34,882
I might see somebody who doesn't have a
brain like mine trying to undo any top

674
00:34:35,089 --> 00:34:38,143
so yet to say what do you manage your
brain is acting up

675
00:34:38,629 --> 00:34:42,630
it's acting weird okay cool well any
brain thus not

676
00:34:42,639 --> 00:34:47,490
normal Nero typical what does it have
any different

677
00:34:47,049 --> 00:34:52,078
where concern is perceived as a weakness
be a strength where can you find your

678
00:34:52,078 --> 00:34:52,617
strength

679
00:34:53,319 --> 00:34:57,050
so anytime your brow beating yourself
really what you need to do is get to

680
00:34:57,005 --> 00:34:57,014
know yourself better

681
00:34:57,095 --> 00:35:00,244
get to know yourself better know it'll
happen is

682
00:35:01,099 --> 00:35:04,250
the weaknesses will become strikes
because

683
00:35:04,025 --> 00:35:07,025
whatever is unique about you is where
shrink this new you want to build on

684
00:35:07,025 --> 00:35:09,028
strengths to Peter Drucker concept build
on strengths

685
00:35:09,055 --> 00:35:14,084
to try to build often strength okay so
you're you learn those numbers on how do

686
00:35:14,579 --> 00:35:14,990
you know

687
00:35:14,099 --> 00:35:17,127
you 24 so young okay

688
00:35:18,027 --> 00:35:21,080
I don't even believe my brain turned on
until about 20 secs

689
00:35:21,008 --> 00:35:24,327
not to freak you out years man turned on
I don't even think that I was viewing

690
00:35:25,119 --> 00:35:25,900
things

691
00:35:25,009 --> 00:35:28,012
from an adult perspective into private
26

692
00:35:28,093 --> 00:35:31,178
you don't even cooler it keeps turning
on more more now my brain is continuing

693
00:35:32,078 --> 00:35:35,082
to turn on more and more now I see other
people who aren't there yet I'm like wow

694
00:35:36,018 --> 00:35:39,074
wow and it'll keep switching on MORE
MORE

695
00:35:39,074 --> 00:35:42,413
your intelligence if you if you keep
reading great books put

696
00:35:43,079 --> 00:35:46,108
healthy should your body challenge
yourself put yourself through chess try

697
00:35:46,369 --> 00:35:46,960
different things

698
00:35:46,096 --> 00:35:49,142
your brain will keep switching on more
more more you listen they're out there

699
00:35:50,042 --> 00:35:50,100
one day

700
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,319
Michael I need to purchase grope you now
what you're thinking how to work your

701
00:35:54,319 --> 00:35:54,940
brain

702
00:35:54,094 --> 00:35:58,115
how to get it going you know your
strengths are you build your career

703
00:35:59,015 --> 00:36:01,954
all sources should be you'll do as you
get older if you sell the most comical a

704
00:36:02,089 --> 00:36:04,137
growing a plant where basically is a
growing up a complaint you know you've

705
00:36:04,569 --> 00:36:06,750
been in the branches repeating the right
nutrients

706
00:36:06,075 --> 00:36:09,090
give me a break the news is not eating
for yourself the question is is it worth

707
00:36:09,009 --> 00:36:09,015
it

708
00:36:10,005 --> 00:36:13,594
but since in question you could actually
are you it's not worth it

709
00:36:14,089 --> 00:36:16,167
I mean less knowledge should have talked
my question here sa question you're

710
00:36:16,869 --> 00:36:18,510
thinking maintaining diverse opinions

711
00:36:18,051 --> 00:36:21,650
in our circles watcher you can make
millions of dollars have a lot of sex

712
00:36:22,109 --> 00:36:22,700
lube

713
00:36:22,007 --> 00:36:25,016
Luke because again we have this

714
00:36:25,079 --> 00:36:28,156
begin a fun all you want to do is have
fun

715
00:36:29,056 --> 00:36:33,107
you can now funfetti here flipping your
phone around than expected

716
00:36:34,007 --> 00:36:37,048
I can be flipping out but you know I
don't really care I

717
00:36:37,048 --> 00:36:40,065
as I and done well so it doesn't matter
but you know

718
00:36:40,065 --> 00:36:44,514
the point is I'm you know you can
display at the fucking thing and you can

719
00:36:45,099 --> 00:36:45,700
be happy

720
00:36:45,007 --> 00:36:48,386
you don't need K so happiness is setting
the bar low in my opinion

721
00:36:49,079 --> 00:36:53,820
you know so I like to do other shit is
what it's all about what you like Dell

722
00:36:53,082 --> 00:36:57,095
other people have different hobbies
other people have basketball is it and

723
00:36:57,095 --> 00:36:59,254
people say what's up to albany is the
highest hobby

724
00:37:00,109 --> 00:37:03,180
about the development of oneself
basketball is not

725
00:37:03,018 --> 00:37:06,457
I don't what if you just love talking
basketball

726
00:37:06,619 --> 00:37:10,250
so my hobby something on its a look when
I'm tell you this shit its cuz my hobby

727
00:37:10,025 --> 00:37:11,096
is something of a similar call be gone
like

728
00:37:11,096 --> 00:37:14,225
are you missing copyright combat Evolved
awesome dude visitors

729
00:37:15,089 --> 00:37:18,130
in you pump they can you do this you
need as many mooted gosh it is so

730
00:37:18,013 --> 00:37:18,076
passionate

731
00:37:18,076 --> 00:37:21,115
so cool might have my hobby fell to
dominate a game just a hobby

732
00:37:22,015 --> 00:37:25,020
that you don't get your you can be happy
when you get this down

733
00:37:25,002 --> 00:37:29,421
you're gonna be happy when you flip your
phone you know thanks like your

734
00:37:29,619 --> 00:37:30,250
headphones

735
00:37:30,025 --> 00:37:34,028
take a long time shares try taking a
headphone and literally just right wrong

736
00:37:34,028 --> 00:37:34,063
it

737
00:37:34,063 --> 00:37:37,151
in there don't try to hire if you look
at his face

738
00:37:38,051 --> 00:37:41,055
has got me even more small now that he
would look that happy if you just want

739
00:37:41,091 --> 00:37:41,096
to check

740
00:37:42,041 --> 00:37:45,065
look at his face he looking like I'm is
right

741
00:37:45,065 --> 00:37:48,070
he would not look at Abbey anybody check
he won't even look at happy makes

742
00:37:49,015 --> 00:37:49,097
million dollars

743
00:37:49,097 --> 00:37:52,164
when you make your first million you
won't even our faith that you'll feel

744
00:37:53,064 --> 00:37:53,089
like

745
00:37:53,089 --> 00:37:55,097
I did knife

746
00:37:56,069 --> 00:38:00,378
lead or good

747
00:38:00,999 --> 00:38:05,460
just when you're more it's something you
did it's just not a former sublime

748
00:38:05,046 --> 00:38:06,875
happiness is call is justly time

749
00:38:07,289 --> 00:38:11,170
and by the way well in limp

750
00:38:11,017 --> 00:38:14,064
no women know what no what does that
mean saw

751
00:38:14,064 --> 00:38:17,089
yet no women no kind and pride no cry

752
00:38:17,089 --> 00:38:20,788
and what that mean are no women don't
cry about it

753
00:38:21,589 --> 00:38:23,666
yet you know it's a hundred percent sure
you ever notice I talk a lot about

754
00:38:24,359 --> 00:38:24,458
jerking off

755
00:38:25,349 --> 00:38:27,447
in my videos and it should be like it's
not really talking about whacking off

756
00:38:28,329 --> 00:38:29,980
again like it he okay

757
00:38:29,098 --> 00:38:32,119
one other reason why time a lacking of
all time is because I have such a high

758
00:38:33,019 --> 00:38:36,114
sex drive but if I don't brain washed
myself into liking jerking off

759
00:38:37,014 --> 00:38:41,096
if I don't pull a new girl I'll go crazy
offering prosecutors

760
00:38:41,096 --> 00:38:44,115
so I trained myself to be like I love to
jerk off

761
00:38:45,015 --> 00:38:48,024
I will jerk off in front a girl's and
they're like

762
00:38:48,024 --> 00:38:51,070
you're the best guy jerking off either
see you love to jerk off

763
00:38:51,007 --> 00:38:55,386
I don't tell girls I love to jerk off
and I can wash musha and now he's not a

764
00:38:56,079 --> 00:38:57,640
match me I get girls masturbating on

765
00:38:57,064 --> 00:39:00,145
epic level part about looking can come
at me feel come after mating

766
00:39:01,045 --> 00:39:04,097
they don't know how to touch was not
properly and get them often isn't what

767
00:39:04,097 --> 00:39:06,206
it was about to hit his sexy hypnosis

768
00:39:07,079 --> 00:39:10,380
and they don't know how to hypnotize
themselves into arousal I teach you how

769
00:39:10,038 --> 00:39:12,066
to do that if you had a late goal I
kinda sup

770
00:39:12,066 --> 00:39:16,275
I also teach myself like had enjoyed
life like I'm always grooming myself

771
00:39:16,869 --> 00:39:17,871
like a catch

772
00:39:18,069 --> 00:39:21,146
you see cat licking itself you wanna be
if you want to get a game

773
00:39:21,839 --> 00:39:25,865
wanna good skills is become like a cat
was good at licking itself like

774
00:39:26,099 --> 00:39:30,126
why do I go by like a sauna why do I why
do I go on

775
00:39:30,369 --> 00:39:34,390
you know why do I fuckin at you know
cradles your hobbies that I have our

776
00:39:34,579 --> 00:39:36,658
intellectual pursuits that I have a
friend that I hang out with and for that

777
00:39:37,369 --> 00:39:37,443
I'm doing it

778
00:39:38,109 --> 00:39:42,200
because I want to make it more sex is a
bonus it's not needed

779
00:39:42,002 --> 00:39:46,029
it's a bonus I can sure myself off into
oblivion I can have fun

780
00:39:46,047 --> 00:39:49,646
I can make myself have a good time I
wanna lower down my criteria for having

781
00:39:50,069 --> 00:39:53,087
fun you're feeling good about myself a
few even sexually satisfied down to as

782
00:39:53,249 --> 00:39:54,200
low as possible

783
00:39:54,002 --> 00:39:57,098
now the problem is some guy to the lack
mopping that you know

784
00:39:58,016 --> 00:40:02,019
they lack of a little cold for cockerels
hit alright let deplete the mother Jane

785
00:40:02,046 --> 00:40:02,117
or whatever

786
00:40:03,017 --> 00:40:06,070
surging energy or whatever right and
left a real problem for like I said to

787
00:40:06,007 --> 00:40:08,866
be reaches proper as but for me my such
a high

788
00:40:09,559 --> 00:40:12,578
sold again it's like cannot be satisfied

789
00:40:12,749 --> 00:40:15,804
sexually without even a woman but they
now can use that non enough to attract

790
00:40:16,299 --> 00:40:17,140
more women

791
00:40:17,014 --> 00:40:20,933
you know canine teeth cannot be happy
flipping a phone

792
00:40:21,059 --> 00:40:24,900
but now that I can be happy for being a
follower I can work all day

793
00:40:24,009 --> 00:40:28,060
wall why the people is why we're going
to be done soon as it can be done I can

794
00:40:29,041 --> 00:40:30,072
work a twenty-hour day

795
00:40:30,072 --> 00:40:34,851
and put my phone every few minutes laugh
and get the same pleasure data somebody

796
00:40:35,499 --> 00:40:37,528
else would need to watch seven hours of
television

797
00:40:37,789 --> 00:40:40,789
do you think pleasure so I'm in an
advantage

798
00:40:40,789 --> 00:40:44,380
I'm an advantage in ninety is a women's
like a lack of I'm an advantage

799
00:40:44,038 --> 00:40:46,120
with work because I don't use much
leisure time cuz I can make myself have

800
00:40:47,002 --> 00:40:47,331
fun

801
00:40:47,529 --> 00:40:50,970
easily tell you tweak that again was I
come down to

802
00:40:50,097 --> 00:40:53,192
self-awareness tweaking your brain
tweaking your brain in your favor

803
00:40:54,092 --> 00:40:58,211
acrimony familiarizing yourself in your
brain and that it's like a puzzle

804
00:40:59,039 --> 00:41:02,410
I just figured out over time I was more
motivated though because my brain was so

805
00:41:02,041 --> 00:41:02,680
phat

806
00:41:03,049 --> 00:41:06,071
and my dick was so not fought bad

807
00:41:06,269 --> 00:41:09,292
I wore more makeup enemy the best to get
right

808
00:41:09,499 --> 00:41:12,720
that made a mess about good well-meaning
it now is

809
00:41:12,072 --> 00:41:15,117
eighty percent eighty-two percent dark
chocolate but you need to know I'm

810
00:41:16,017 --> 00:41:17,116
always doing it little ball ship

811
00:41:18,016 --> 00:41:22,070
tell myself no cost I see me you dark
chocolate logo dorm room

812
00:41:22,007 --> 00:41:26,056
love your secret to getting laid dark
chocolate Reeses little ORS debuggers

813
00:41:27,019 --> 00:41:27,092
you bokan

814
00:41:27,092 --> 00:41:30,951
or we're going boating dark chocolate
emerging do what you got laid you close

815
00:41:31,779 --> 00:41:34,805
yeah but look at my videos watch me
closing I'm causing like a gangster to

816
00:41:35,039 --> 00:41:39,062
was making a side points a new one point
must and opposing in peace dark

817
00:41:39,269 --> 00:41:41,348
chocolate otherwise some better come
suck my dick singer

818
00:41:42,059 --> 00:41:45,380
so I'm cell

819
00:41:45,038 --> 00:41:48,187
know what i'm saying is like wanted to
have anything whatever your thing is

820
00:41:48,529 --> 00:41:52,450
to get in a good mood you know now that
that was made a member turmeric

821
00:41:52,045 --> 00:41:56,140
weird right but some yellow spice I
should like that palms my brain up

822
00:41:57,004 --> 00:42:00,143
its subtle it's not like taking drugs
and booze

823
00:42:00,539 --> 00:42:03,586
you take food Charlotte rare you know
and even know anymore but you know I'm

824
00:42:04,009 --> 00:42:04,380
time

825
00:42:04,038 --> 00:42:09,044
subtle I do a lot of little things by
myself in a good mood very very subtle

826
00:42:09,098 --> 00:42:12,172
little things that I'm doing to add an
extra one or two percent my latest thing

827
00:42:13,072 --> 00:42:15,094
we're to share his cry all therapy

828
00:42:15,094 --> 00:42:19,116
why put myself in a fuckin closet full
liquid nitrogen

829
00:42:20,016 --> 00:42:24,035
almost every day yeah

830
00:42:24,035 --> 00:42:27,119
I said it now right-o wipe

831
00:42:28,019 --> 00:42:31,042
no I Tony Robbins Mr danny's like
832
00:42:31,042 --> 00:42:34,107
saying he does this shit barely keeps in
the back his bling because the bad

833
00:42:35,007 --> 00:42:36,062
picture this time around because the
back

834
00:42:36,062 --> 00:42:39,138
it's pretty now a popular connection
about kinda funny sounding

835
00:42:40,038 --> 00:42:43,045
try look it up turns out the shit right
near my house

836
00:42:44,008 --> 00:42:48,010
I go over there to look at Tony Robbins
is your last night is trying to fucking

837
00:42:48,001 --> 00:42:49,067
partner but that sounds like she's
Christ

838
00:42:49,076 --> 00:42:52,167
nato welcomes your Michael Kobe Bryant
bomb I'm sold me up

839
00:42:53,067 --> 00:42:56,104
Tony Robbins and Kobe Bryant come here
I'm aim

840
00:42:57,004 --> 00:43:01,030
really not get any closer to them as a
person by coming here but the point is I

841
00:43:01,003 --> 00:43:03,008
tell myself that that's the fun part is
also a time

842
00:43:03,035 --> 00:43:07,064
cell could be fine if I could I got that
shit I'm on it saw go

843
00:43:07,064 --> 00:43:11,075
bill fuckin W things like two minutes
they freeze you and then you come out

844
00:43:11,075 --> 00:43:13,081
and actually pumping your brain
neurotransmitters

845
00:43:13,081 --> 00:43:16,166
refining and decrease inflammation

846
00:43:17,066 --> 00:43:20,133
prior to me and weirder I was waiting
for it

847
00:43:21,033 --> 00:43:24,097
and there was a there is like I'm a
elliptical machine there

848
00:43:24,097 --> 00:43:27,155
because people them as wanna do it twice
on a jump on the elliptical machine for

849
00:43:28,055 --> 00:43:30,058
a minute before going back in this crowd
chamber thing

850
00:43:30,058 --> 00:43:33,155
I put my foot in the elliptical machine
where the bar was

851
00:43:34,055 --> 00:43:37,091
with the output part over it now
spinning at

852
00:43:37,091 --> 00:43:40,190
nice but my foot into it and it cracked
my foot a good fucking cracker should I

853
00:43:41,009 --> 00:43:42,012
put out a huge

854
00:43:43,002 --> 00:43:48,006
a dark purple bruise like instantly
wanna more gruesome injury that had

855
00:43:48,024 --> 00:43:52,033
but because I was across their p.m. they
put me in the chamber and froze it

856
00:43:53,014 --> 00:43:58,058
it he'll like five times faster cosmic I
did about high gasoline on time

857
00:43:58,058 --> 00:44:01,073
it was like wait after that she took a
two minute put it right on it

858
00:44:01,073 --> 00:44:04,146
as we have a way of those

859
00:44:05,046 --> 00:44:08,141
it was cool but yeah I do not but it
just wouldn't have a noite

860
00:44:09,041 --> 00:44:12,070
they won't have it here might me know
when Fontenot

861
00:44:12,007 --> 00:44:15,024
no one from Boston do that shit only
weird actually this happens in LA new

862
00:44:15,087 --> 00:44:15,125
york

863
00:44:16,025 --> 00:44:19,064
all that we worship goji berries and
shared

864
00:44:19,064 --> 00:44:22,068
LA New York thing people in Boston

865
00:44:23,004 --> 00:44:26,058
by now you did crouching rated goji
berry high kick your ass

866
00:44:26,058 --> 00:44:28,037
and rightfully cell

867
00:44:28,559 --> 00:44:31,635
that's why we go to los angeles in min
cell

868
00:44:32,319 --> 00:44:36,365
yes we showed up like again is just shit
I just do to entertain myself just

869
00:44:36,779 --> 00:44:36,872
whatever you decide

870
00:44:37,709 --> 00:44:39,794
I don't care if it works or not if I
just think it works entertaining fine

871
00:44:40,559 --> 00:44:43,880
anything other put you in a better mood
coach hours going to put in a good mood

872
00:44:43,088 --> 00:44:47,517
excise meditation and even accused
adding on that subtle baseline for you

873
00:44:48,309 --> 00:44:48,397
don't need

874
00:44:49,189 --> 00:44:54,232
consumer society or women's validation
yes getting a foreign I got by the way

875
00:44:54,619 --> 00:44:57,641
again once I are you beginning to see
the formal your phone I'm teaching

876
00:44:57,839 --> 00:45:00,915
every little thing I'm teaching you as
I'm trying to pull the rug out

877
00:45:01,599 --> 00:45:04,698
from women having any power over you and
I don't mean to say that in me Matt take

878
00:45:05,589 --> 00:45:06,674
a bath now I'm mad

879
00:45:07,439 --> 00:45:11,160
I'm not trying to be like that but to be
fair you all know how it is who we are

880
00:45:11,016 --> 00:45:13,645
there have been a relationship where you
at the power goes right track in at one

881
00:45:13,789 --> 00:45:14,882
point she got the power shots traction
for you

882
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:19,807
you everyone the trance that shit Sony
is you have to hold your power is a man

883
00:45:20,599 --> 00:45:21,663
that's life dude so

884
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:26,297
anything that you can do to hold your
power is a guy where you feel good

885
00:45:26,819 --> 00:45:29,881
and sexually satisfy without needing
women is great course meal here in women

886
00:45:30,439 --> 00:45:34,160
the penis fuck all those girls you can
also go out that night and dad

887
00:45:34,016 --> 00:45:37,215
be 9e DXL looking at sex anyway

888
00:45:37,359 --> 00:45:41,360
let the sex is a big need for you but
always what your Sony peeling away

889
00:45:41,369 --> 00:45:44,416
you taking your happiness the film an
easy way for the women

890
00:45:44,839 --> 00:45:48,910
and taking your sex needs way for the
women usually my fucking other women

891
00:45:48,091 --> 00:45:52,280
is a great way to do that you know it's
like we could as fuck the matter all

892
00:45:53,099 --> 00:45:55,186
noon if you know I'm here and then you
can just know the glutamine other girl

893
00:45:55,969 --> 00:45:56,041
helps too

894
00:45:56,689 --> 00:45:59,727
week Mike of and that's like again im
always always pulling aback

895
00:46:00,069 --> 00:46:03,091
question yeah on the back to you for
their first

896
00:46:03,289 --> 00:46:05,320
here

897
00:46:05,032 --> 00:46:08,096
eyes job all

898
00:46:08,096 --> 00:46:11,975
your

899
00:46:12,839 --> 00:46:15,930
ok by

900
00:46:15,093 --> 00:46:21,192
problem group

901
00:46:22,092 --> 00:46:26,140
mom your the regression I made a video
about the so-called the ecosystem

902
00:46:27,004 --> 00:46:28,091
opossum oceana shot in a at

903
00:46:29,027 --> 00:46:32,066
in the at Hamilton Pool & Austin Texas
what I said there was
904
00:46:32,066 --> 00:46:37,067
in gotcha like stopping any stopping in
stopping need stopping eating

905
00:46:37,076 --> 00:46:40,117
you know you realize nationally it's
okay to be needy

906
00:46:41,017 --> 00:46:44,456
maybe you're knee deep feelings you tell
you to get some fucking friends and to

907
00:46:44,609 --> 00:46:45,820
be able to share shit with

908
00:46:45,082 --> 00:46:48,145
cell the example i gave that video as I
said

909
00:46:49,045 --> 00:46:52,124
back in the day like 2009 at

910
00:46:53,024 --> 00:46:56,032
8i think you know about

911
00:46:56,032 --> 00:46:59,105
six years ago identified neck because

912
00:47:00,005 --> 00:47:04,314
neck annoy the shit outta me now to be
fair

913
00:47:04,359 --> 00:47:07,520
to neck was not present I in no way this
shit

914
00:47:07,052 --> 00:47:11,096
out a neck and the reason why if to give
a basic breakdown is that we start out

915
00:47:11,096 --> 00:47:11,170
very similar

916
00:47:12,007 --> 00:47:15,056
but because we're so close to me Nick
are a month apart in birth

917
00:47:16,019 --> 00:47:19,068
we are so god damn close we're brothers
basically

918
00:47:19,068 --> 00:47:22,095
lead my brain saw the parts that he was
handling

919
00:47:22,095 --> 00:47:24,754
and cultivate all those parts and then
explains how the part that I'm handling

920
00:47:25,609 --> 00:47:27,960
cosmetology are some unique 2.1 brain

921
00:47:27,096 --> 00:47:30,103
some really fucking weird but because I
like one brain

922
00:47:31,066 --> 00:47:34,120
we've had a lot of different opinions
about things went very very different

923
00:47:35,002 --> 00:47:37,401
opinions about the certain things come
on RC people

924
00:47:37,599 --> 00:47:41,420
you don't think that at that I'm doing a
3-1 like you know the neck decisions

925
00:47:41,042 --> 00:47:44,113
this is a this is 8 businesses more than
one people not a little dictate our

926

00:47:45,013 --> 00:47:48,018

927
00:47:48,063 --> 00:47:51,252
if you wanna work great people catch to
everyone you have to for
928
00:47:51,819 --> 00:47:55,050
compromise cell yep

929
00:47:55,005 --> 00:47:59,039
arm annoy the fuck outta me and I meant
about a lot now

930
00:47:59,039 --> 00:48:02,127
what Nick said to me one day cuz venting
about my nurse anything I personally

931
00:48:03,027 --> 00:48:04,866
insulting by just be fresher the
decisions

932
00:48:05,109 --> 00:48:08,180
is Nick said 01 why are you calling up

933
00:48:08,018 --> 00:48:11,064
Stewart our sales guy and then see about
me

934
00:48:11,064 --> 00:48:14,115
and I was like I know dude thats
bullshit you know

935
00:48:15,015 --> 00:48:18,029
your crack that's fucking bullshit

936
00:48:18,029 --> 00:48:21,029
and what he said was actually dune no
its not I meant about you too

937
00:48:21,029 --> 00:48:25,048
but what really brothers here we can we
talk openly mean a communicant

938
00:48:25,048 --> 00:48:30,137
open is you could ever be right so he
said no your problem is you have no

939
00:48:30,569 --> 00:48:33,510
you have nobody to talk to you don't
have a peer group to talk to you can

940
00:48:33,051 --> 00:48:34,073
isolate in Hawaii

941
00:48:34,073 --> 00:48:37,212
building the business out you triple the
size the business in three years

942
00:48:37,869 --> 00:48:41,180
but you're not talking anybody it's
perfectly healthy comment about people

943
00:48:41,018 --> 00:48:41,100
so there's this thing called

944
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:45,024
yell he always on turner's organizations
the said

945
00:48:45,024 --> 00:48:48,026
networking group Raj burners that have
missus with one yr

946
00:48:48,044 --> 00:48:51,050
one million dollars a year or more in
revenue on that's not as good as it

947
00:48:52,004 --> 00:48:55,023
sounds good revenues like a profit so
you could have been is losing money with

948
00:48:55,023 --> 00:48:55,912
Milly Dowler's revenue

949
00:48:56,119 --> 00:48:59,940
now I what he only as

950
00:48:59,094 --> 00:49:02,176
is the is no but you know if this will
call the form and formats about eight to

951
00:49:03,076 --> 00:49:03,170
12 people in it
952
00:49:04,007 --> 00:49:08,076
and in that form you I you how you can
to go through like in a circle and talk

953
00:49:09,039 --> 00:49:10,070
about what happened in your month

954
00:49:10,007 --> 00:49:13,084
and dad is a pretty cool things about it
one thing about it is really cold

955
00:49:14,047 --> 00:49:16,055
is that is is supposed to be and
property much he is completely

956
00:49:17,027 --> 00:49:17,114
confidential

957
00:49:18,014 --> 00:49:21,023
the other thing that's really cool about
it is that when you get advice

958
00:49:22,004 --> 00:49:25,053
check this out yet ready for this is a
blow your mind when you get advice

959
00:49:25,053 --> 00:49:28,072
you can't give the other entrepreneur
advice

960
00:49:28,072 --> 00:49:32,099
by say you should do this where you
should do that all that you can do

961
00:49:32,099 --> 00:49:35,698
is say I had a similar experience

962
00:49:36,589 --> 00:49:40,640
and here is what i dnt

963
00:49:41,099 --> 00:49:46,120
and here's what happened when I did that
cuddle with the pickup community should

964
00:49:46,309 --> 00:49:46,361
be

965
00:49:46,829 --> 00:49:50,420
you know about me and you should know
this man up fucking bitch

966
00:49:50,042 --> 00:49:54,098
it's like I had some experience and I at

967
00:49:54,098 --> 00:49:57,207
found this to be helpful now why do you
think I'm on

968
00:49:58,089 --> 00:50:02,480
boss entrepreneurs they call this the
gestalt method to solve method is

969
00:50:02,048 --> 00:50:05,063
you give a similar trend to say what you
did and what the outcome was why do you

970
00:50:05,063 --> 00:50:05,146
think that's good for an

971
00:50:06,046 --> 00:50:11,124
entrepreneur any thoughts if you're used
to being the boss

972
00:50:12,024 --> 00:50:16,613
inherently you a personal boundaries
against be talked out like that

973
00:50:16,829 --> 00:50:19,857
what you gotta do this the one-year
staffer you're paying

974
00:50:20,109 --> 00:50:23,190
you gotta do this you're kinda like a
dude like

975
00:50:23,019 --> 00:50:26,428
you're not gonna talk to me like that in
all fire you

976
00:50:26,599 --> 00:50:30,440
right so you can't talk to a business
owner like that but the truth is

977
00:50:30,044 --> 00:50:32,653
made in the pickup community should be
using this %ah method because he should

978
00:50:33,049 --> 00:50:36,440
really be talking another guy try to be
helping out at you don't pressure me

979
00:50:36,044 --> 00:50:37,046
talking like that

980
00:50:37,046 --> 00:50:40,165
to be fair it's prolly I talk to my
summer I mean I became I think people

981
00:50:40,579 --> 00:50:40,626
like it

982
00:50:41,049 --> 00:50:44,660
but even a bill camp you want to say to
people at the start every boot camp

983
00:50:44,066 --> 00:50:44,715
because I say

984
00:50:45,309 --> 00:50:48,720
I say hey man you know what this weekend
you're paying me

985
00:50:48,072 --> 00:50:53,095
to tell you what to do what that means
is that for this weekend I'm your bitch

986
00:50:53,095 --> 00:50:56,153
I say that assert my book as I can
remember I'm your bitch

987
00:50:57,053 --> 00:51:00,097
you want me to just walk in shower be
around to show you what to do for next 3

988
00:51:00,097 --> 00:51:00,446
days

989
00:51:01,319 --> 00:51:04,430
is that we're here for me to do till I
get so much so that means you 1 if i may

990
00:51:04,043 --> 00:51:05,932
be your bitch that's what I have to do
right now like

991
00:51:06,319 --> 00:51:10,630
yes and that it feels fine but a lot I'm
really coughing gozando can struggle

992
00:51:10,063 --> 00:51:11,088
being told what to do

993
00:51:11,088 --> 00:51:15,091
so I say to them a lot to me and say the
most hated I can tell you're winner-live

994
00:51:15,091 --> 00:51:17,172
I can tell you very confident your pride
not used to people telling you what to

995
00:51:18,072 --> 00:51:19,138
do a red light no amount that's a good
thing

996
00:51:20,038 --> 00:51:23,120
but hiring is to capitalize know you're
right I'm a I'm your bitch

997
00:51:24,002 --> 00:51:28,023
you like that Arden but anyway with EL

998
00:51:28,041 --> 00:51:31,053
getting back on the main point seem to
stop method

999
00:51:31,053 --> 00:51:34,145
the other thing is you have a
confidential environment with

1000
00:51:35,045 --> 00:51:38,052
here business owners Corey peers

1001
00:51:38,052 --> 00:51:42,057
who will not judge you for what you're
saying

1002
00:51:43,002 --> 00:51:47,821
as confidential the satanic pisses me
off I can go to you

1003

00:51:47,839 --> 00:51:50,990

1004
00:51:50,099 --> 00:51:53,408
tell them about it and

1005
00:51:54,299 --> 00:51:58,030
they can even help ground that
experience for me as a universal

1006
00:51:58,003 --> 00:51:59,049
experience a lot people go through

1007
00:51:59,049 --> 00:52:02,158
by sharing their experiences now what
happen is

1008
00:52:02,599 --> 00:52:05,626
I've got this far contention in me and I
let it out

1009
00:52:05,869 --> 00:52:08,869
they're creating a space for me to let
that out

1010
00:52:08,869 --> 00:52:13,470
now because that's what that out what
happens I don't call Stewart Bishop I

1011
00:52:13,047 --> 00:52:13,120
think anymore

1012
00:52:14,002 --> 00:52:17,411
not only that but when I C Nick I'm
happy to see Nick

1013
00:52:17,609 --> 00:52:22,150
cut the tension out the same thing
applies for Nina's

1014
00:52:22,015 --> 00:52:25,074
yes you can fix mir's by meditating

1015
00:52:25,074 --> 00:52:29,102
great way you can fix it my eating some
weird ass

1016
00:52:30,002 --> 00:52:33,541
bitter chocolate or by whacking off

1017
00:52:33,559 --> 00:52:36,680
and I was wishing to but you know the
way to fix the NIS

1018
00:52:36,068 --> 00:52:39,437
friends how do you feel after night out
joking out

1019
00:52:40,049 --> 00:52:43,690
around to france feel great right you
don't walk on feeling needy

1020
00:52:43,069 --> 00:52:46,094
this is why humans have weekends we work
in the week

1021
00:52:46,094 --> 00:52:49,098
and then for doling out for human the
don't you pick up artistry

1022
00:52:49,098 --> 00:52:52,098
they go get wasted with her body the
club dance

1023
00:52:52,098 --> 00:52:55,098
and is actually prefer that

1024
00:52:55,098 --> 00:52:58,101
there's actually a fuckin purpose like
you know we have

1025
00:52:59,001 --> 00:53:02,096
add pick up guys you know we see much
ado Dao dancing with her girlfriends

1026
00:53:02,096 --> 00:53:02,180
getting drunk

1027
00:53:03,008 --> 00:53:06,297
at least number know that it the truth
is I probably dis not my know that is

1028
00:53:07,089 --> 00:53:10,020
kinda like amid what I'm doing and fight
1 percent how cool what I'm doing is

1029
00:53:10,002 --> 00:53:13,021
but is that really true

1030
00:53:13,021 --> 00:53:18,024
because they're feeling great I would
recommend to put guys in a pickup

1031
00:53:18,051 --> 00:53:21,150
to go get friends and go to a bar and
dance or go get friends

1032
00:53:22,005 --> 00:53:25,374
and go joke around and what's funny is
in the process

1033
00:53:25,869 --> 00:53:29,150
knew that my poor anyway now the point
that North Park video that was shot

1034
00:53:29,015 --> 00:53:32,048
Armin Francisco was that just by having
fun

1035
00:53:32,048 --> 00:53:35,116
you're feeling good and then you do
better with girls this is a partner
1036
00:53:36,016 --> 00:53:38,071

probably pick up to me because you can

1037
00:53:38,071 --> 00:53:38,123
method

1038
00:53:39,023 --> 00:53:43,142
success method is like all you know keep
approaching that's good for guys getting

1039
00:53:43,349 --> 00:53:43,960
going

1040
00:53:43,096 --> 00:53:46,149
but at a good thing to do just got
fuckin fine and this

1041
00:53:47,049 --> 00:53:49,126
always the mix the truth is always in
the middle there's different ways to go

1042
00:53:50,026 --> 00:53:50,875
about his cell

1043
00:53:51,109 --> 00:53:54,380
getting friends yes is going to kill
neediness

1044
00:53:54,038 --> 00:53:57,102
by being a Zen master but in other ways
to have friends

1045
00:53:58,002 --> 00:54:01,096
it's good to kill need for sex while I
can of another wages get him across

1046
00:54:01,096 --> 00:54:01,168
fucking you

1047
00:54:02,068 --> 00:54:06,117
cell course you want to have your
baseline
1048
00:54:07,017 --> 00:54:11,068
low below baseline where you can satisfy
your needs very easily

1049
00:54:11,068 --> 00:54:14,113
but if you happen to be able to have
things like friends are sacks

1050
00:54:15,013 --> 00:54:18,094
so much the better you want to be the
point where you don't need friends or

1051
00:54:18,094 --> 00:54:18,150
Saks

1052
00:54:19,005 --> 00:54:23,024
I think I don't but I also have a lot of
sex not a lot of friends

1053
00:54:23,069 --> 00:54:27,075
I'm doing that for a reason if I can
truly be at my most peach state with

1054
00:54:27,075 --> 00:54:28,076
just black mopping

1055
00:54:28,076 --> 00:54:31,435
meditating on that I don't know needs an
integer shit

1056
00:54:32,119 --> 00:54:35,144
I would come and teach this program to
masturbate incomplete presence

1057
00:54:35,369 --> 00:54:39,550
let me spend the next three days jerking
off into a cup and meditating

1058
00:54:39,055 --> 00:54:43,055
so obviously I'm teaching with other
shit because there's a point

1059
00:54:43,055 --> 00:54:46,150
and the point that I'm teaching is that
is that you want a good baseline
1060
00:54:47,005 --> 00:54:51,010
a satisfaction and then you can build on
that by building a bonus and

1061
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:56,012
spirals spirals a downward spiral sucks
to be in their top

1062
00:54:56,012 --> 00:54:59,054
and upper spirals great right now are
he's been up for spiral

1063
00:54:59,054 --> 00:55:02,056
we have more success which means that we
can purchase a better camera equipment

1064
00:55:02,056 --> 00:55:02,132
camera teams

1065
00:55:03,032 --> 00:55:06,119
arm have more time to create content put
out more stuff for free percent get more

1066
00:55:07,019 --> 00:55:07,072
students

1067
00:55:07,072 --> 00:55:10,105
then you get more students now you can
now be more not sure that it does not

1068
00:55:11,005 --> 00:55:14,052
approach problem maybe at some point
what a snag made amends company badly

1069
00:55:14,052 --> 00:55:16,137
and finance company Palin will happen is
we're going to Paris partner could

1070
00:55:17,037 --> 00:55:17,103
happen again

1071
00:55:18,003 --> 00:55:21,012
happened before could happen again not
Superman
1072
00:55:21,012 --> 00:55:25,041
we'll see happens get all gotta learn
from it and cry but the point is like

1073
00:55:25,041 --> 00:55:28,046
you now you you want to always be
pushing to get an upper Sproul so many

1074
00:55:28,091 --> 00:55:29,136
guys are stuck in a stagnant

1075
00:55:30,036 --> 00:55:33,055
dour spiral you wanna try to push it
into the upper spinal

1076
00:55:33,055 --> 00:55:36,090
I know they're doing the stuff that I'm
teaching that you're the hot seat

1077
00:55:36,009 --> 00:55:39,102
is balking top I know because easy for
me

1078
00:55:40,083 --> 00:55:43,102
when I go out every day as my job so to
speak i don't realize that I actually

1079
00:55:44,002 --> 00:55:47,090
have huge responsibilities an unpaired
to kids latches probably harder for me

1080
00:55:47,009 --> 00:55:47,073
and i won

1081
00:55:48,054 --> 00:55:52,076
but talk on my job to log all give a
thumbs up for that

1082
00:55:52,076 --> 00:55:55,119
now the thing is though that it's hard
right

1083
00:55:56,019 --> 00:55:59,057
but how if you're stuck in a position
other other

1084
00:55:59,057 --> 00:56:03,121
it a deadlock how do you switch that
around think I'm kings and queens from a

1085
00:56:04,021 --> 00:56:05,026
thousand years ago

1086
00:56:05,026 --> 00:56:08,092
how did they get power guys they went
out with the Falcons ordered a bone

1087
00:56:08,092 --> 00:56:08,156
marrow

1088
00:56:09,056 --> 00:56:12,074
and they killed the fuck at everything
until they took the power

1089
00:56:12,074 --> 00:56:16,096
they didn't get that by sitting there so
how are you good at like

1090
00:56:16,096 --> 00:56:21,124
like if a king or queen could go spam
like 15-20 years consolidating power

1091
00:56:22,024 --> 00:56:25,078
in a very demonic horrible way but
nonetheless hard with ADLs

1092
00:56:25,078 --> 00:56:28,127
not think about the epic so much as just
how hard it was if they can go around

1093
00:56:29,027 --> 00:56:31,079
the pocket short bow and arrow and
getting it might look like

1094
00:56:31,079 --> 00:56:34,102
would any you guys you mean wanna get in
a fight would like a fuckin

1095
00:56:35,002 --> 00:56:40,051
I would like I'm I mail file likely need
you guys agree to fight each other right

1096
00:56:40,051 --> 00:56:41,053
now the furnace room

1097
00:56:41,071 --> 00:56:44,120
would like a little pointy thingy nail
clipper I wouldn't

1098
00:56:45,002 --> 00:56:49,005
I'm not fighting I got the nail clipper
cuz he could scratch me up

1099
00:56:49,023 --> 00:56:53,045
that is clower she had compared with
these kings or queens did

1100
00:56:53,045 --> 00:56:57,076
with a proper stored I really want a
proper stored away my general vicinity

1101
00:56:57,076 --> 00:57:00,082
I don't even wanna gun weighed in my
general vicinity

1102
00:57:00,082 --> 00:57:04,160
these motherfuckers are running around
with swords killing person after person

1103
00:57:05,006 --> 00:57:07,008
would bow and arrows and swordfish

1104
00:57:07,062 --> 00:57:11,093
didn't shield for twenty years so they
can get into a position of power and

1105
00:57:11,093 --> 00:57:11,156
freedom

1106
00:57:12,056 --> 00:57:15,093
you don't have to do that how you gotta
do

1107
00:57:15,093 --> 00:57:19,121
you can your little tired after work get
your shit together and go out

1108
00:57:20,021 --> 00:57:23,043
and then start the spiral from there to
build on it so

1109
00:57:23,043 --> 00:57:25,140
the shit that we have to do to get in
position powers far less than what our

1110
00:57:26,004 --> 00:57:26,098
ancestors had to do

1111
00:57:27,034 --> 00:57:30,120
the godlike life isn't fair like to stop
know she it's

1112
00:57:31,002 --> 00:57:35,023
knows she a corset top might if you want
more

1113
00:57:35,041 --> 00:57:38,046
you can acknowledge that life can be
competitive and tough and hard and you

1114
00:57:38,046 --> 00:57:39,059
can push to get it

1115
00:57:39,059 --> 00:57:43,062
a lot of talk about here if you look at
it he is a lot of different things that

1116
00:57:43,062 --> 00:57:43,069
you can do

1117
00:57:44,032 --> 00:57:47,086
to actually they control

1118
00:57:47,086 --> 00:57:50,124
everything that talked about today
understanding your brain giver peer

1119
00:57:51,024 --> 00:57:54,063
group scamming you're thinking bring in
bathroom items working are making plans

1120
00:57:54,063 --> 00:57:57,108
trying out different shit experimenting
getting order in a cool way

1121
00:57:58,008 --> 00:58:01,077
24 think we'll be at 34 you have no idea

1122
00:58:01,077 --> 00:58:04,113
we can be a very from going to be a
forty we're going to be a forty-five who

1123
00:58:05,013 --> 00:58:05,056
knows

1124
00:58:05,056 --> 00:58:08,058
may be a dumb balding idiot you know

1125
00:58:08,058 --> 00:58:11,080
but maybe something powerful who knows
so you don't we can

1126
00:58:11,008 --> 00:58:15,011
we can see that with experimentation and
dad i am.

1127
00:58:16,001 --> 00:58:19,046
yeah I think I could catch limit that
that's what I think and

1128
00:58:19,055 --> 00:58:22,132
noticed you the end is laughing at Sams
topic maybe could be a few more

1129
00:58:23,032 --> 00:58:26,041
pragmatic questions at after this then
wrap it up but last night in a topic is

1130
00:58:27,022 --> 00:58:31,058
look at what I'm doing here house folks
on thriving not coping

1131
00:58:31,058 --> 00:58:34,139
so you can look at what I'm saying be
like all this is a little much as little

1132
00:58:35,039 --> 00:58:35,090
heavy

1133
00:58:35,009 --> 00:58:39,030
I think will is not for everybody but
what I found

1134
00:58:40,011 --> 00:58:44,047
was you wanna know the best way to get
out your petty problems get better

1135
00:58:44,047 --> 00:58:44,134
problems

1136
00:58:45,034 --> 00:58:48,075
so in other words if you're sitting
there like New Year

1137
00:58:48,075 --> 00:58:52,112
I am sad and you know what's happening
you know this girl didn't like me and

1138
00:58:53,012 --> 00:58:54,020
I'm approach anxiety

1139
00:58:54,092 --> 00:58:59,165
hunt start thinking bigger and then this
other shit will seem small

1140
00:59:00,065 --> 00:59:03,070
the probable I did use they're not
thinking very big

1141
00:59:03,007 --> 00:59:06,088
and if you're not thinking big then
ain't value your personal woman

1142
00:59:07,051 --> 00:59:10,068
is very real and pervasive and

1143
00:59:10,068 --> 00:59:15,071
consuming and that you can tell the fact
that a man by the sizes problems
1144
00:59:15,071 --> 00:59:19,075
KU some and he's very upset and
overwhelmed by a small problem

1145
00:59:19,075 --> 00:59:20,364
is probably a man

1146
00:59:21,039 --> 00:59:25,650
smaller ambitions and a smaller circle
concerns at seancody would call it

1147
00:59:25,065 --> 00:59:28,139
when you expand your circle concerns
beyond yourself

1148
00:59:29,039 --> 00:59:33,458
then little smoke answers on affect you
as much so in a lot of ways for me

1149
00:59:33,809 --> 00:59:37,888
because I was walking around a session
angry heady state for so many years

1150
00:59:38,599 --> 00:59:41,601
I actually found a lot a relief in
thinking bigger

1151
00:59:41,619 --> 00:59:46,380
it actually paradox we made my life
easier in a much less painful less

1152
00:59:46,038 --> 00:59:46,737
shitty

1153
00:59:47,079 --> 00:59:50,083
my thinking bigger because now on the
finger pressure grow

1154
00:59:50,119 --> 00:59:53,143
I behind a lot bigger shit or about life
well

1155
00:59:53,359 --> 00:59:56,444
cell that I think alike and thriving as
opposed to coping

1156
00:59:57,209 --> 01:00:02,241
coping everything seems like a big you
are feeling bad today I didn't get a lot

1157
01:00:02,529 --> 01:00:03,380
of sleep today

1158
01:00:03,038 --> 01:00:06,407
I'm sad you know try to sleep

1159
01:00:06,749 --> 01:00:09,780
but it doesn't affect you be a bigger
ambitions

1160
01:00:10,059 --> 01:00:13,152
some no bigger circle concern so another
big things wrapping this like everything

1161
01:00:13,989 --> 01:00:14,993
I'm talking about is

1162
01:00:15,029 --> 01:00:18,900
about driving a cop in don't need to do
to be happy

1163
01:00:18,009 --> 01:00:21,828
you can be in coping be happy again
government further bomb

1164
01:00:22,719 --> 01:00:26,763
a little wank good me happy but to be
happy to set the bar low

1165
01:00:27,159 --> 01:00:30,236
you know people to have it is the
ultimate you make happiness too

1166
01:00:30,929 --> 01:00:30,994
complicated

1167
01:00:31,579 --> 01:00:34,643
for the fucking phone be happy Rep
1168
01:00:35,219 --> 01:00:38,292
now with her happy more that baseline
where can we go from here got caught up

1169
01:00:38,949 --> 01:00:39,024
in one i dis

1170
01:00:39,699 --> 01:00:43,722
I'm set to this one girl let's fix that
the killer

1171
01:00:43,929 --> 01:00:46,940
all the other ten thousand little about
him your guys like

1172
01:00:47,039 --> 01:00:50,086
you don't want to get you know I just
want to get a job at Subway knew how

1173
01:00:50,509 --> 01:00:50,563
about this

1174
01:00:51,049 --> 01:00:54,067
suffering on the job is so beloved by
the subway that you can put the puck a

1175
01:00:54,229 --> 01:00:55,640
little paper had a higher self

1176

01:00:55,064 --> 01:00:58,343

1177
01:00:58,919 --> 01:01:02,007
like think bigger and then and then
you're going to be prepared on my with

1178
01:01:02,799 --> 01:01:05,802
I'm fatter someone like you can solve
the problem appeared on which is created

1179
01:01:05,829 --> 01:01:08,922
but our program cell yeah I just
1180
01:01:09,759 --> 01:01:12,853
I love the confidence writing I don't
Riding Center in the abbey

1181
01:01:13,699 --> 01:01:15,788
I mean you be happy I'm Eli people are
there coping to like they're so happy

1182
01:01:16,589 --> 01:01:17,603
but

1183
01:01:17,729 --> 01:01:20,734
I me happy anyway and then you could
drive just cuz

1184
01:01:21,229 --> 01:01:23,760
just if you want to just to be wanted
that's it

1185
01:01:23,076 --> 01:01:27,685
no need to no need to god-like ho want
to construct a little bit was no need to

1186
01:01:28,369 --> 01:01:31,420
I'll be happy when I'm Bastrop a
question there's no need to

1187
01:01:31,042 --> 01:01:34,076
just on the radio happiness isn't gonna
come when you do that

1188
01:01:34,076 --> 01:01:37,090
be happy now for the fuckin phone
haven't drank

1189
01:01:37,009 --> 01:01:40,708
anybody that other shit just cuz
affidavit