Special Condition
Special Condition
Grief Counseling
Grief counseling offers individuals who are grieving the loss of a loved one or facing significant
losses in their lives vital support, empathy, and guidance. Through this process, individuals are
encouraged to openly express their emotions, gain insight into the grieving process, and acquire
coping strategies to navigate the emotional difficulties that arise from their loss.
Goals:
To increase the reality of the loss
Help deal with both expressed and latent effect
Help overcome various impediments to readjustment after the loss
Help find a way to remember the deceased while feeling comfortable reinvesting in life
Steps in Grief counseling
Establishing a Therapeutic Relationship: The first step involves building trust and rapport
between the client and counselor. This foundation is crucial for creating a safe space for the
grieving individual to express their emotions and thoughts. (Worden, 2009).
Assessment and Exploration: Counselors assess the individual's unique grief experience,
including the nature of the loss, their emotional reactions, and their coping mechanisms. This
stage helps tailor the counseling approach to the client's specific needs.
Normalizing Grief Reactions: Counselors educate clients about the common emotional and
physical reactions associated with grief. Normalizing these responses helps clients understand
that their reactions are natural and not signs of weakness
Facilitating Expression and Processing: Clients are encouraged to express their feelings,
thoughts, and memories related to the loss. Counselors use active listening and empathy to
support clients in processing their grief.
Coping Skills and Strategies: Counselors teach clients coping skills and strategies to manage
the emotional and practical challenges of grief. This may include relaxation techniques,
cognitive-behavioral strategies, and stress management ( Neimeyer, 2012).
Exploration of Meaning and Integration: Clients are guided in finding meaning in their loss
and integrating it into their lives. This stage often involves exploring the legacy and impact of
the deceased person.
Closure and Transition: The final stage involves helping clients transition from intense grief to
a place of acceptance and adjustment. It focuses on acknowledging the ongoing connection to the
deceased while also moving forward in life (Parkes, 2013).
GRIEF THERAPY
● Used to treat severe or complicated traumatic grief reactions
● Experience the loss of a loved one as a painful, confusing, and disruptive event
● Allow for the expression of feelings and provide bereaved persons with important
opportunities to make sense of their grief experiences
● May be done in either individual or group contexts
Grief therapy is appropriate in situations that fall into three categories
● The complicated grief reaction is manifested as prolonged grief
● The grief reaction manifests itself through some masked somatic or behavioural symptom
● The reaction is manifested by an exaggerated grief response
FOUR TASKS OF MOURNING
● William Worden
● Accept the reality of the loss
● To acknowledge and work through the pain of grief
● To adapt to an environment in which the deceased is missing
● To emotionally relocate the deceased and move on with life
Accept the reality of the loss
● The facts of the loss need to be recognized
● Subtle aspects of the loss—the meaning of the loss and its irreversibility
● To recognize the significance of loss
● First principle- to help the survivor actualize the loss
● To acknowledge and work through the pain of grief
Facilitate the survivor’s talking about his or her experience of the loss
● Difficult task as no one wishes to feel such pain
● Seek to avoid painful feelings and thoughts
● Friends may prefer to avoid the pain of the grieving person’s experiences and leaves the
griever isolated
● Therapists themselves may avoid the griever’s pain in therapy
● Therapist’s role is to both sit with the person’s painful feelings and to help him or her
express these
● Anger is commonly experienced but not always readily expressed
To adapt to an environment in which the deceased is missing
● A deceased person has often played many roles in the survivor’s life
● Self-definition has depended heavily on his or her relationship with the deceased person
● Self perception theory- we come to know ourselves in the same way that we come to
know others: by observing our own behaviors in various situations
● In a bereavement group, members can have many opportunities to engage in altruistic,
supportive, and empathetic behaviors toward other members
● Members can begin to see themselves not as confused and grieving but as active and
engaged with others
To emotionally relocate the deceased and move on with life
● It is often more useful to facilitate the grieving person’s recognition that the lost person is
never really forgotten
● It is possible to go on with other loving relationships
● Such recognitions on the part of the client represent a valid therapeutic goal
Strength and Weakness
● Places a strong explicit emphasis on the feeling experiences of grieving persons
● It is relatively easily understood
● “Tasks” provides a structure for the grieving person as well as for the therapist
● The main criticism of this approach is its implicit stage like quality
● It is very tempting to fit all grieving individuals into a mold of “working through the
stages” (tasks) of grieving
MEANING RECONSTRUCTION
● Robert Neimeyer
● Emphasizes the uniqueness of individuals’ experiences of grieving
● Revision of one’s life story in response to a loss is the central process in grieving
● Opportunity for grieving persons to tell their stories in ways that will help them to make
sense of loss and of life
● Story-telling process
● People “write” and rewrite their stories and thus develop a sense of meaning, purpose,
and identity
● Grief therapy is focused on a retelling or reconstruction of the grieving person’s
narrative.
● This will allow the survivor to once again find meaning in life in the context of a new
reality
● Techniques involve the following
● Writing letters to the deceased
● Keeping a journal
● Putting together a book of memories
● Drawing stories of events in one’s life, including a drawing about the loss.
● Compiling a book of photographs
● Constructing a lifeline consists of drawing a line graph of the experiences of one’s life
along a horizontal axis that can be divided into 10-year increments
CBT strategies to help the bereaved
Identifying and Challenging Negative Thoughts: This strategy involves helping the bereaved
individual identify and challenge unhelpful or distorted thoughts related to their loss. By
questioning and reframing these thoughts, they can develop more adaptive thinking patterns
(Nezu, Nezu & Lombardo, 2001).
Behavioral Activation: Grief can lead to withdrawal and decreased engagement in activities.
Behavioral activation involves helping the bereaved individual resume pleasurable and
meaningful activities, which can improve mood and functioning (Martell, Dimidjian & Herman-
Dunn, 2010).
Grief Journaling: Keeping a grief journal allows individuals to express their feelings, thoughts,
and memories related to the loss. It can promote self-reflection and emotional processing (Lepore
& Smyth, 2002).
Cognitive Restructuring for Guilt and Shame: Some bereaved individuals may experience
guilt or shame related to their loved one's death. Cognitive restructuring helps them address these
feelings and find more compassionate perspectives (Beck, 2011).
Gestalt therapy
The empty chair technique
•Origins in Psychodrama and imported into Fritz Perls’ Gestalt therapy
•One of the most simple but profound techniques
•The empty chair technique involves having clients talk to a loved one with whom they have no
more contact (because of death or lifelong separation) via an empty chair
•Crose (1990) found the empty chair technique to be useful in working with clients who have
unfinished business.
How to implement the technique: 6 steps (Young, 2013)
•Warm up: the client should think about an example in which he felt ambivalent about an issue
(polarities)
•First, arrange the chairs facing each other and explain why the technique is being used
•Second, client picks the side he has strongest feelings for.
•Third, expression in the here and now
•Fourth, counter-expression & switching chairs
•Fifth, the switching continues till both sides of the polarity have been articulated
•Sixth, agree upon an action plan
THERAPY IN TRAUMA
Trauma results from an event or series of events experienced by an individual as physically or
emotionally harmful and has lasting adverse effects on the individual’s neurological, emotional,
physical, spiritual and cognitive function. There are many types of traumatic events, and we
often think of sexual abuse, physical injury, neglect, isolation, trafficking, homelessness, and
disability.
Trauma-Focused Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) is a widely recognized and
evidence-based approach used to treat individuals, especially children and adolescents, who have
experienced trauma. TF-CBT combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with trauma-specific
interventions.It incorporates elements such as psychoeducation, relaxation, affective expression
and regulation, cognitive coping, and gradual exposure to trauma-related material (Cohen,
Mannarino & Deblinger , 2006).
Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) focuses mainly on unrealistic and/or unhelpful thoughts a
person has about their traumatic experience and/or how the trauma has impacted their beliefs
about themselves, others, and the world.
Common Elements Treatment Approach (CETA) focuses on specifically targeting the
symptoms of posttraumatic stress, anxiety and/or depression in people affected by their traumatic
experiences. The goal is to choose the treatment components that match the specific symptoms
of the person and then provide the treatment components that work for the specific symptoms
that are most impacting the client. Usually sessions cover one treatment component at a time.
Prolonged Exposure (PE) focuses on reducing the intense negative emotions that are caused by
memories or being reminded of the trauma. The main negative emotions that go with
remembering are fear and shame. The idea is that facing up to the trauma memories or reminders
in a planned way eventually wears down the negative emotions connected to the memories.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) aims to help you process and
release traumatic memories through eye movements. Here the therapist will ask the client to hold
a specific aspect of a traumatic event in mind while you focus on their hand moving back and
forth (or, sometimes, rhythmic tapping).
•The aim is to help the brain to “reprocess” the memory, which wasn’t fully processed at the
time due to overwhelming stress by engaging both sides of your brain (known as bilateral
stimulation).
•This reprocessing aims to release the memories, ultimately relieving nightmares, flashbacks and
triggers.
Therapies and techniques in the management of Crisis
Crisis intervention
Crisis intervention refers to the methods used to offer immediate, short-term help to individuals
who experience an event that produces emotional, mental, physical and/or behavioral distress or
problems.
• A crisis can refer to any situation in which the individual perceives a sudden loss of his or her
ability to use effective problem-solving and coping skills (i.e., natural disasters, criminal
victimization, medical illness, mental illness, thoughts of suicide or homicide and loss or drastic
changes in relationships such as death of a loved one or divorce).
Roberts' Seven-Stage Crisis Intervention Model
Stage I: Psychosocial and Lethality Assessment
The crisis worker must conduct a swift but thorough biopsychosocial assessment. At a minimum,
this assessment should cover the client's environmental supports and stressors, medical needs and
medications, current use of drugs and alcohol, and internal and external coping methods and
resources (Eaton & Ertl, 2000). One useful (and rapid) method for assessing the emotional,
cognitive, and behavioral aspects of a crisis reaction is the triage assessment model (Myer, 2001;
Myer, Williams, Ottens, & Schmidt, 1992, Roberts, 2002)
Assessing lethality, first and foremost, involves ascertaining whether the client has actually
initiated a suicide attempt, such as ingesting a poison or overdose of medication. If no suicide
attempt is in progress, the crisis worker should inquire about the client's "potential" for self-harm.
This assessment requires
● asking about suicidal thoughts and feelings (e.g., "When you say you can't take it
anymore, is that an indication you are thinking of hurting yourself?");
● estimating the strength of the client's psychological intent to inflict deadly harm (e.g., a
hotline caller who suffers from a fatal disease or painful condition may have strong
intent);
● gauging the lethality of suicide plan (e.g., does the person in crisis have a plan? how
feasible is the plan? does the person in crisis have a method in mind to carry out the plan?
how lethal is the method? does the person have access to a means of self-harm, such as
drugs or a firearm?);
● inquiring about suicide history;
● taking into consideration certain risk factors (e.g., is the client socially isolated or
depressed, experiencing a significant loss such as divorce or layoff?).
With regard to imminent danger, the crisis worker must establish, for example, if the caller on the
hotline is now a target of domestic violence, a violent stalker, or sexual abuse.
Rather than grilling the client for assessment information, the sensitive clinician or counselor
uses an artful interviewing style that allows this information to emerge as the client's story
unfolds. A good assessment is likely to have occurred if the clinician has a solid understanding of
the client's situation, and the client, in this process, feels as though he or she has been heard and
understood. Thus, it is quite understandable that in the Roberts model, Stage I—Assessment and
Stage II—Rapidly Establish Rapport are very much intertwined.
The clinician certainly can inquire about what the client has found that works in similar
situations. For example, it frequently happens that relatively recent immigrants or bicultural
clients will experience crises that occur as a result of a cultural clash or "mismatch," as when
values or customs of the traditional culture are ignored or violated in the United States. For
example, in Mexico the custom is to accompany or be an escort when one's daughter starts
dating. The United States has no such custom. It may help to consider how the client has coped
with or negotiated other cultural mismatches. If this crisis precipitant is a unique experience, then
clinician and client can brainstorm alternatives—sometimes the more outlandish, the better—that
can be applied to the current event. Solution-focused therapy techniques, such as "Amplifying
Solution Talk" (DeJong & Berg, 1998) can be integrated into Stage IV.
● removing the means—involving parents or significant others in the removal of all lethal
means and safeguarding the environment;
Obviously, the concrete action plans taken at this stage (e.g., entering a 12-step treatment
program, joining a support group, seeking temporary residence in a women's shelter) are critical
for restoring the client's equilibrium and psychological balance. However, there is another
dimension that is essential to Stage VI, as Roberts (2005) indicated, and that is the cognitive
dimension. Thus, recovering from a divorce or death of a child or drug overdose requires making
some meaning out of the crisis event: why did it happen? What does it mean? What are
alternative constructions that could have been placed on the event? Who was involved? How did
actual events conflict with one's expectations? What responses (cognitive or behavioral) to the
crisis actually made things worse? Working through the meaning of the event is important for
gaining mastery over the situation and for being able to cope with similar situations in the future.
● cognitive mastery of the precipitating event (does the client have a better understanding of
what happened and why it happened?);
● an assessment of overall functioning including, social, spiritual, employment, and
academic;
● satisfaction and progress with ongoing treatment (e.g., financial counseling);
● any current stressors and how those are being handled;
● need for possible referrals (e.g., legal, housing, medical).
Follow-up can also include the scheduling of a "booster" session in about a month after the crisis
intervention has been terminated. Treatment gains and potential problems can be discussed at the
booster session. For those counselors working with grieving clients, it is recommended that a
follow-up session be scheduled around the anniversary date of the deceased's death (Worden,
2002). Similarly, for those crisis counselors working with victims of violent crimes, it is
recommended that a follow-up session be scheduled at the 1-month and 1-year anniversary of the
victimization.
Psychological First Aid (PFA)
PFA is a humane, supportive response to a fellow human being who is suffering and who may
need support. It is an acute intervention of choice when responding to the psychosocial needs of
children, adults and families affected by disaster and terrorism. It is designed to reduce the initial
distress caused by traumatic events and to foster immediate and long-term adaptive functioning
and coping.
It involves the following 7 themes:
ACTION PRINCIPLES of PFA
LOOK:
Check for safety, People with obvious urgent basic needs, and people with serious distress
reactions. Crisis situations can change rapidly. You may not have enough time to prepare
adequately or the scene may be different from what you learned before you enter the site. Be
calm, be safe and think before you act.
LISTEN:
Approach people who may need support. Ask about people’s needs and concerns. Listen to
people and help them to feel calm.
1. Help them feel comfortable – eg. offer water
2. Take them to a safer place
3. Protect from exposure to the media for their privacy & dignity.
4. Ask for their specific needs and concerns
5. Help them work out what their priorities are.
6. Stay close to the person
7. Do not force them to talk but listen in case they want to talk about what happened.
8. Be a role model – Stay calm, speak slowly and help them feel Calm
LINK: (Major part of PFA)
Help people address basic needs, access services and cope with their problems. Give them
information of the crisis event, support services available, and how to seek help. Connect people
with loved ones and social support. Make sure vulnerable or marginalized people are not
overlooked. Follow up with people if you promise to do so. Linking people with practical
support is a major part of PFA. PFA is often a short time and one time intervention. So help
people to notice their strengths & help themselves and to regain control of their situation. Being
able to manage a few issues will give the person a greater sense of control in the situation and
strengthen their own ability to cope.
SELF HARM
Self-harm is a behavior, not an illness. Thus, management is highly dependent on the underlying
problems, which could range from psychosis with intense continuing suicidal urges requiring
psychiatric admission, to an impulsive over-reaction to a stressful event that rapidly resolves
with family support.
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
It offers several techniques to help individuals regulate self-harming behaviors by identifying
and modifying the thoughts, emotions, and behaviors associated with self-harm.
The therapist begins by conducting a thorough assessment to understand the individual's history,
self-harm patterns, triggers, and underlying issues such as depression, anxiety, or borderline
personality disorder.The therapist educates the individual about self-harm, its potential
consequences, and the CBT framework.
The person is encouraged to keep a journal or diary to track their self-harm incidents, including
when, where, why, and how they engage in self-harm. This helps identify patterns and
triggers.Cognitive treatment targets the thoughts, assumptions, rules, attitudes and core beliefs
that support self-harm.Thoughts in their myriad forms play a fundamental role in the onset and
continuation of self-harm.
The cognitive process always precedes the emotion and behaviors associated with cutting,
excoriation, self-burning, and self-hitting and so on.Core beliefs like unlovability, incompetence,
and negative body image would be evaluated with corroborative empiricism.Cognitive needs to
be identified and targeted for a comprehensive and successful treatment.
CBT Technique:
Thought Restructuring: Thought restructuring, also known as cognitive restructuring, involves
identifying and challenging distorted and negative thoughts that may trigger or maintain self-
harming behaviors. Clients learn to replace irrational and harmful thoughts with more rational
and adaptive ones. This technique helps individuals gain better control over their emotions and
behaviors. (Beck, J. S,2011).
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT):
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a widely recognized and evidence-based approach for
individuals who engage in self-harming behaviors. One of the core techniques used in DBT to
address self-harm is "Distress Tolerance." Distress Tolerance skills are designed to help
individuals better tolerate and manage intense emotions without resorting to self-harm.
TIP Skills, which stands for Temperature, Intense Exercise, and Paced Breathing, are a set of
strategies aimed at rapidly reducing emotional distress by altering the body's physiological
response. These techniques help individuals create a physical change in their bodies, which can,
in turn, affect their emotional state and reduce the urge to self-harm (Linehan, M. M, 1993).
Distress Tolerance: The TIP Skills technique is just one component of Distress Tolerance in
DBT. It's important to note that DBT is a comprehensive therapy approach that also includes
other components like emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and mindfulness, which
are all integrated to help individuals manage their emotions and reduce self-harming behaviors
Mindfulness: Learning to be present in the moment and observe thoughts and emotions non-
judgmentally.
Emotion Regulation: Identifying and managing intense emotions effectively.
Interpersonal Effectiveness: Developing healthy communication and relationship skills.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a therapeutic approach that aims to help
individuals accept their thoughts and feelings while committing to values-based actions. ACT
can be used to address self-harming behaviors by fostering greater psychological flexibility and
promoting healthier coping strategies.
Defusion techniques in ACT are designed to help individuals distance themselves from their
thoughts and reduce their impact. When applied to self-harm, defusion helps individuals detach
from urges or thoughts related to self-harm, allowing them to view these thoughts as passing
events rather than absolute truths. By doing so, they can choose not to act on these urges (Hayes,
Strosahl & Wilson, 2011).
Metaphor and Personification: Encourage the person to give their self-harming thoughts a name
or visualize them as characters separate from themselves. This can help create distance between
the individual and their thoughts and make it easier to view them objectively.
Thought Labeling: Teach the individual to label their self-harming thoughts as just thoughts, not
necessarily facts or commands. For example, they can say, "I'm having the thought that I should
hurt myself," rather than simply accepting the thought as truth.
Mindfulness and Observing: Encourage mindfulness practices to help individuals observe their
thoughts and emotions without judgment. This can create awareness and detachment from the
urge to self-harm.
Thought Defusion Exercises: Use exercises like "Thanking Your Mind" where individuals thank
their mind for the self-harming thoughts without acting on them. This acknowledges the presence
of the thoughts without engaging in self-destructive behavior.
The Leaves on a Stream Metaphor: Ask the individual to imagine their thoughts as leaves
floating down a stream. They observe each thought without holding onto it or trying to push it
away. This can help detach from distressing thoughts.
Sing It: Encourage individuals to sing their self-harming thoughts or urges to a familiar tune in a
silly or playful manner. This can make the thoughts seem less threatening and easier to defuse.
Thought Experiments: Engage in thought experiments where the individual explores the
consequences of acting on self-harm versus choosing not to. This can help them make more
informed choices based on their values and long-term goals.
Value-Based Commitment: Help the individual identify their core values and connect these
values to actions that promote well-being. This can provide motivation to choose behaviors that
align with their values instead of self-harm.
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
It combines principles of mindfulness meditation with cognitive-behavioral techniques. It is
often used to help individuals with recurrent depression and can be adapted to address self-harm
behaviors by increasing awareness and developing healthier responses to difficult emotions.
The Three-Minute Breathing Space is a brief mindfulness exercise designed to help individuals
shift their attention from automatic and potentially self-destructive thoughts or behaviors to the
present moment. It consists of three stages: becoming aware of one's experience, gathering one's
attention, and expanding awareness to the body and surroundings. This technique can be used
when an individual feels the urge to self-harm to help them pause and regain control (Segal.,
Williams & Teasdale, 2002).
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