Lesson 3 - Purpose
Lesson 3 - Purpose
Lesson 3: Purpose
Discussion Prompt
QUOTE:
1. GO TO GOD IN PRAYER.
CONCLUSION
So many people live and die without leaving any
positive mark. Be different. You are not nonentity.
Supplies:
How to Play: Split the group into two teams and give them each a bowl of
ice and a towel. The point of the game is to make the ice completely vanish.
Players must take turns doing this—they each get thirty seconds with the
bowl of ice before they have to pass it to the next player. They can do
anything they want to melt the ice—they can blow on it, rub it in their hands,
use the towel, or even crush it with their feet. But the game isn’t finished
until there is no trace of ice left, only water. The first team to make their
bowl of ice completely vanish wins!
Teach – Purpose
1. Created for a Purpose: Explain that we are all created for a unique
purpose and that our identity in Christ is tied to that purpose.
Have you ever wondered what your purpose in life was? Have you ever
wondered why exactly you were put on this earth, and what exactly you’re
supposed to do with the time you have here? Those are really big questions,
right?
Those are questions that can make you feel really small and scared, and
questions that can drive you absolutely crazy until you answer them. Well,
I’m going to go ahead and clear a lot up for you about these questions, which
will hopefully save you a lot of time and frustration. Are you ready?
You can’t answer them. Yep, you heard that right. Those questions that
seem so big and important? You can’t answer them. Not on your own,
anyway. Why do you think that is? Well, here’s a question for you: If you
didn’t create yourself, how can you possible know what you were created
for?
Read Psalm 139:13 – “For you created my inmost being; you knit me
together in my mother’s womb.”
Have you ever seen anyone knit before? It’s a very intricate process, one
that takes a lot of time and focus. It’s not possible to accidentally knit
something. Instead, you have to have a plan of what you’re going to knit,
and then you have to focus on what exactly you’re knitting. God knit you
together. Not on accident, not on a whim, but with a purpose.
If you want to know what the purpose of something is, don’t you think it
would be a good idea to ask the creator of that something? God knit you
together at the very beginning of your life, before you even knew you
existed. Don’t you think He knows what He made you for?
2 Timothy 1:9 – “He has saved us and called us to a holy life—not because
of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This
grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time.”
I’m going to let you in on a secret. God’s purpose for you is not about you;
it’s about Him. This verse says that we’ve been saved and called to a holy
life because of Jesus, not because of us. Because of God’s purpose, not
because of ours. And then it says something really cool. It says that the
grace of Jesus was given to us before the beginning of time. Not before the
beginning of your life, but the beginning of time. That’s so crazy that’s it’s
hard to wrap your mind around!
So let me ask you this-if God was going to save you and call you because of
His purpose and grace, and He gave you that grace before the beginning of
time, don’t you think it’s safe to say He’s always had a plan and a purpose? If
He’s going to go through all the trouble of giving you grace way before
you’re even around, and then calling and saving you—I don’t think there’s
any way you’re an accident. And I don’t think there’s any way that you don’t
have a purpose. You do have a purpose, and it’s His purpose.
Okay, I need a volunteer to come up here. Get out the two bowls, one with
water, and the fork, spoon, and cup. I need you to do something for me. I
need you to transfer the water from this bowl to the empty bowl using one of
these things. Which one do you think would be the most helpful?
They will say the cup. Okay, well, I actually have other plans for the cup. So
what else could you use? The spoon? Okay, I kind of wanted to do something
else with the spoon. But I don’t have any plans for the fork—why don’t you
use that?
Let them try to use the fork for a few seconds before sending them back to
their seats. A fork is a really great thing. We all use them pretty much every
day, right? But a fork is absolutely terrible at getting water from one bowl to
another. That’s just not its purpose, no matter how much I thought I knew it
could work. The cup would have worked so much better! It’s the same way
with us.
God knows our purpose because He created us, and He knows what we’ll be
the best at. If it were left up to us, we’d probably be like the fork—trying to
do something that we were never meant to do!
2. YOU LACK JOY AND EXCITEMENT - If you wake up every day filled
with apathy or dread or total boredom, you’re probably not doing what
you were meant to do. God has created you uniquely, has really good
things planned for you and one of the fruits of the Spirit is joy
(Galatians 5:22). In his book “Desiring God,” John Piper says:
The pursuit of joy in God is not optional. It is not an “extra”
that a person might grow into after he comes to faith.
6. BRING OTHERS INTO YOUR LIFE - Proverbs 11:14 says, “Where there
is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is
safety.” In other words, one of the main ways God will help you find your
purpose is through others. A caveat needs to be made here. Your
counselors should be people you trust. Whether this is your professors,
parents or friends, it needs to be people who have your back and want
the best for you. You want wise counselors to help you find God’s
purpose for you.
Discussion Questions:
2. Have you ever thought to ask God those hard questions we talked about—
like why you’re here and what you’re supposed to do with your time here?
3. Do you believe that God has a purpose for you? Do you think His is better
than your own?
4. Have you ever really thought about how God intricately knit you together
before you were even born? How does that make you feel?
5. When you think about how God knows everything, does that make you
feel any differently about His purpose for you?
6. God loved you so much that He sent His only Son to die for your sins.
Since you know how great of a love that is, do you think that His purpose for
you is a good one?
7. Is it hard for you to commit to following God’s purpose for your life? Why
or why not?
8. We read that God’s plans and purposes will stand firm forever. Can you
say the same thing about your plans?
9. Did you know that God gave you grace before the beginning of time? Do
you think it’s possible for Him to have done that and not have a purpose for
you?
10. How can you begin to follow God’s purpose for your life if you don’t know
what exactly it is?
Have you ever bought someone you loved a really great gift before? One
that you picked out just for them, and that you knew they would love
because you knew them so well? You hid it under your bed, wrapped it, and
excitedly counted down the days to their birthday so you could give it to
them.
That’s kind of how I imagine God feels about your purpose. He knows you
better than anyone else ever will, and He knows how you’re supposed to fit
into His plan. And He has this incredible purpose for you that He’s created.
He’s just excitedly waiting until you say yes.
So say yes! Ask Him about His purpose for your life. It’s not
complicated, just pray and ask Him to lead you in the right
direction.
Truly, God has already revealed a lot of your purpose to you through His
Word, so it’s important to make sure you’re living according to that. If you’re
worried about what your purpose is, yet you’re running around lying and
disrespecting your parents—well, you’re not living out God’s purpose for you,
because you’re not living in the way that you know He wants you to live.
So open your Bible this week. When you come across a commandment, or an
instruction on how to live, don’t look at it as a rule. Look at it as God
revealing your purpose to you. He knows you and what you need. He gave
you the incredible gift of His Word. So open it up and start living!