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Meherji Duvvuri: PGDMM., PGDM., Pgdfm.,Armfa., (PHD)

This document discusses various aspects of developing a strong personality and positive attitude. It covers topics like overcoming negative emotions like fear and stress through techniques like acknowledging achievements and taking small steps. It emphasizes developing skills like assertiveness, communication, and time management. Maintaining good relationships and performing regular self-analyses using SWOT are also recommended for personal growth. The overall message is that personality encompasses many factors and a positive attitude is key to maximizing one's potential.

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Meherji Duvvuri: PGDMM., PGDM., Pgdfm.,Armfa., (PHD)

This document discusses various aspects of developing a strong personality and positive attitude. It covers topics like overcoming negative emotions like fear and stress through techniques like acknowledging achievements and taking small steps. It emphasizes developing skills like assertiveness, communication, and time management. Maintaining good relationships and performing regular self-analyses using SWOT are also recommended for personal growth. The overall message is that personality encompasses many factors and a positive attitude is key to maximizing one's potential.

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MEHERJI DUVVURI

M.B.A., M.COM., NET., L.L.B., PGDMM., PGDM., PGDFM.,ARMFA., (PhD)

PERSONALITY MEANS The totality of an INDIVIDUALS attitudes, interests, behavioral patterns, emotional responses, social roles.

IT IS ALL ABOUT
Food habit.

Public Speaking
Body language Behavior Anger Management Physical Fitness

Friends making Skills. Relationship Skills.

Learning Skills.
Dealing with problems.

WHY DO YOU NEED


It is the most sought for quality Sometimes it is also known as PERSONAL MAGNETISM.

The First Step


is to examine and evaluate your presence to daily life.

PERCEPTION vs. REALITY

NEGATIVE EMOTIONS
Superiority and Inferiority complex

Fear Stress

OVERCOMING NEGATIVE EMOTIONS


SUPERIORITY COMPLEX INFERIORITY COMPLEX Stop associating with all those who make you feel small, inadequate or insecure.

1. Acknowledged achievements

2. Accept and recognize feelings as valid and never contradicts them Know your limitations and the extent of your abilities 3. Do not belittles positive characteristics and points out Refuse to serve as a mat for others flaws in others to walk upon. 4. Be willing to compromise on opinions and views Find out what you do best, work diligently at it until you excel at it

OVERCOMING NEGATIVE EMOTIONS Contd


FEAR 1. Take small steps 2. Getting some positive motivation STRESS 1. One thing at a time 2. Simple schedule

3. Seeing failure and rejection in a new light 3. Do something calming 4. The power of NOW (no other way) 5. FALSE EVEIDENCE APPEARING REAL 4. Get creative 5. De-clutter.

POSITIVE ATTITUDE

HOW MUCH DO YOU SEE OF AN ICEBERG?

ONLY 10% OF ANY ICEBERG IS VISIBLE. THE REMAINING 90% IS BELOW SEA LEVEL.

The Iceberg phenomena is also applicable on human beings

LET US PLAY A GAME

WHICH ONE DO YOU PREFER TO BECOME NO.1 IN YOUR LIFE

MAKE YOUR LIFE 100%


Let each letter of the alphabetic has a value equals to it sequence of the alphabetical order:

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U VWX Y Z 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26
S K I L L S 19 11 9 12 12 19 K N O W L E D G E 11 14 15 23 12 5 4 7 5 H A R D 8 1 18 4 W O R K 23 15 18 11

= =

82 96 98 100

=
=

A T T I T U D E 1 20 20 9 20 21 4 5

THE CAN DO ATTITUDE


You CAN DO everything, but not all at once.

You CAN DO everything, if its important


enough for you to do. You CAN DO everything, but you may not be the best at everything. You CAN DO everything, but there will be

limitations.
You CAN DO everything, but youll need help.

Do butterflies attack your stomach whenever youre asked to speak before a group? Can you confidently express your thoughts and ideas?

SELF CONFIDENCE: It is about having a positive perception of ourselves and our abilities. A LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE: it is characterized by self- doubt, submissiveness, isolation, sensitivity to criticism, distrust, depression, and feelings of inferiority and being unloved.

HOW TO INCREASE SELF CONFIDENCE


Think positively about yourself. Set realistic goals Reward/praise yourself when you DO well. Be aware of your thoughts.

Think logically about the situation, DONT react


Dwell on your strengths. Do not attribute your achievement and accomplishments

only to luck. Give yourself credit for your own personal


achievement. Learn to be assertive.

ASSERTIVENESS

Is the ability to communicate your needs, feelings, opinions, and beliefs in an open and honest manner without violating the rights of others

ASSERTIVENESS

IS NOT SAME AS

Assertiveness produces

positive outcomes

Aggressive acts result in negative outcomes.

WHAT WILL IT DO
1. HELPS YOU BECOME SELFCONFIDENT 2. INCREASES SELF-ESTEEM 3. GAIN RESPECT OF OTHERS 4. IMPROVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS

5. IMPROVE DECISION-MAKING ABILITY

HOW TO BE ASSERTIVE
BE HONEST AND DIRECT ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS, NEEDS, BELIEFS. EXPRESS YOURSELF FIRMLY AND DIRECTLY TO SPECIFIC INDIVIDUALS. BE REASONABLE IN YOUR REQUESTS REGOGNIZE AND RESPECT THE RIGHTS OF THOSE AROUND YOU. BE AWARE OF BODY POSTURE/LANGUAGE MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT. USE I STATEMENTS TO EXPRESS SELF

DONT LET OTHERS IMPOSE THEIR VALUES/IDEAS ON YOU


ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO BE CLEAR AND DIRECT TAKE OWNERSHIP

ASSERTIVENESS
1. DOESNT JUST HAPPEN.

2. DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU HAPPINESS OR FAIR TREATMENT. 3. WILL NOT SOLVE ALL YOUR PROBLEMS
4. DOES NOT GUARANTEEE YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU WANT.

How to maintain good interpersonal relationships?

Nine Ways to Bring People around?

SWOT ANALYSIS

INTERNAL

EXTERNAL

A Strength is your core capability. An advantage over that you have others

A Weakness is others having core capability over you.

An Opportunity is an environmental condition that can improve your position to that of others.

A Threat is a forecast of condition that is out of your control and has the potential to harm your growth path.

Time Management

for personal Sense of Achievement

Where are You?


20% people feel they are short of time. They feel so concerned that they self find answers to Time Mgmt

10% people feel they are short of time. They realise this and are keen to get help and see how they can improve Time Mgmt

70% people feel they are not short of time. Though they dont mind listening to someone. And then tell him why all that is impractical

Balance in Life is important Recognize each aspect of life I am not getting enough time for family/personal life because of Work 80% of day is spent at work/school/college

What is it?
Doing the Right things and not setting Things right In control of Life, not driven by circumstances

Enjoying JOURNEY of life: every day of it, not waiting for a perfect day in future Having right balance in wheel of life

Managing your Time Things to do list Identify Priority

Making it happen Evaluate deviations

The surest way to be late is to have plenty of time.

Never Procrastinate

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